Do girls notice when guys check them out?
Do we make it that obvious ?
If so, guys, how can we do it without letting them know that we're doing it ?
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
Some guys check us out "tastefully", and that's perfectly fine. It's honestly flattering to know that guys like what they see. However, there is a fine line between being tasteful and being perverted.
For example, there was one guy who walked up to me, started talking, and just stared at my boobs and DROOLED. Mouth gaping, eyes looking down, and DROOLING. UGH! And what's worse, was that I was at work.and he had already left by the time I got a manager over there. Even worse? His mother works at the same place I do. And he's old enough to by my dad. I felt dirty, angry, and frustrated, because I couldn't kick him in the crotch and still keep my job. I honestly wished I didn't have boobs, or at least had smaller ones, since anything besides a potato sack draws attention to them. (Even t-shirts, but I can't afford a breast reduction right now - no insurance due to pre-existing conditions.)
So, if you're going to look, don't just stare, and for God's sake, don't drool! When we're talking, look at our faces. We do have them, despite the fact that few guys seem to realize it.
What Girls Said 8
Yes, we see it.
Girl's are incredibly self-conscious creatures. We analyze and over-analyze then re-analyze every look we get, no matter what the heck the guy looks like. You think you're being secretive- honestly, you aren't. We see. Personally, I think it's pretty cute when a guy will glance at you momentarily, then catch your eye, then kind of look down. It's one of those "D'aww!" moments us girls tend to be drawn to.
If you're wondering if it matters if you're ugly or not? I fell for a ugly guy after he began glancing at me momentarily and flirting. I didn't find him remotely attractive beforehand, but something made him incredibly attractive when he looked at me.
Just don't drool over us and you'll be good.
Yes guys make it VERY obvious lol it's not offensive as long as his tongue stays in his mouth though lol. That means no sick or piggish comments and no tongue moving gestures lol
Actually it IS a flirting technique to let a girl catch you checking her out; however, if you don't want her to notice, I suggest one sided windows. or, just when she's not looking. sorry, I just feel if a girl isn't some radical feminist, she's not gonna be insulted you checked her out. its such a compliment! yeah, there's a sleazy way to do it, but just if a girl looks at you and catches you looking, its totally fine. long as ur not going damn want me a piece of that! or something.
Sometimes guys make it obvious . But I'm sure there are other times that a guy checks out a girl and she doesn't even know about it .
Obviously, pointing fingers or staring her down makes it obvious that you're checking her out . If you've got your eyes on a girl, try not to look at her too much or talk about her where she can overhear you .
On the other hand, how is it bad that the girl notices that you're checking her out ? She may see that you look interested and initiate a conversation with you .
My suggestion is that, if you can tell that a girl sees you checking her out, don't be shy . Go up and talk to her !