I've had no luck with women since. Been on a couple dates with 3 different women, but didn't go anywhere. A few women have shown interest in me, but for some reason part of my thought process for has been "this girl doesn't have a sense of humor, little or no similar interest, she's not as good looking as my ex... this isn't for me". I can't tell if it's just coincidence that I'm not attracted to these women OR if I'm comparing things to my past relationship/my ex which is what is preventing me from connecting, if that makes any sense. I kinda feel like a mega pathetic asshole douche and I don't know what to do. This hasn't been sitting well with me.
Also, one of my best friends is good friends with my ex and it's his birthday this weekend where he wants to celebrate with friends. I'm pretty sure that my ex will be there. She has a boyfriend now, whatever. I'm kinda hesitant to go because for a long time I've been doing anything I can to get over this and the sight of her could just bring up bad feelings/memories that I don't want to deal with now, don't want to bail on my friend because of her that'd be lame, might be weird might not, it'd be a true test for me that I may win or lose. I just don't know what to do about all this. Any help would be appreciated
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