Heyy, this my first post as I’ve got a few questions that I’d like answering, that are personal and a little embarrassing however I want to react accordingly, I’m recently in a relationship of a few months with this amazing guy, we’re both waiting a little bit longer before initiating anything and we’ve talked about our boundaries and whilst we aren’t opposed to doing anything we want to wait a little longer. I’ve kissed him and made out with him, like any normal relationship and occasionally when we hang out I tend to sit on his lap, we both know it won’t go anywhere and he initaties it in asking as well as I do to, I sit on him as he lays down however as it’s natural he keeps getting hard when I do this, it’s fully normal and I don’t mind at all but I find it strange as I’m unsure on whether to stay sat down with my full weight as surely that would be uncomfortable. If rather not mention it yet. How should I move, as to not hurt him, and is there a chance it’s something else, part of the time it feels like a small lump that isn’t usually there other times it feels as if I’m sat on an edge of a phone but that’s not possible. I don’t want to keep sitting there however I assume that if he was in pain he’d move me. Sometimes I think he might like it however my whole body weight must be uncomfortable, what should I do to better this situation and not make any thing to tease him.
Now that’s normal to ask and I can guarantee you for one thing:yor girlfriend sitting on your lap is one of the best experiences both sexually and not sexually;now about the full weight , you just don’t have to worry about it, instead you should make yourself comfortable as long as you don’t feel like you are pressing with the full weight on one edge as that’s uncomfortable for both of you I guess;about the hurting him it depends actually on the position he is sitting , the pants and the penis;like it happens that as it gets somewhat hard or even soft it can be in a rolled or bent position and while on that state is uncomfortable enough as it is , not imagining being sat on, but it takes just a little bit of time actually to just put it in a comfortable position and while it’s comfortable there’s just pleasure and passion awaiting, but the problem is that he may be ashamed to point that out if it may happened but resolving that with your girlfriend is much better than when it may happen in a place you can’t move freely!!
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some things you need to understand about guys and the penis. when we get dressed we always have our penis going down one leg of our pants left or right this is because if we get hard we don't want it hitting the crotch of our pants or boxers as that hurts really bad. by doing it this way when we get aroused it extends down the leg of the pants we have it in. so you sitting on his lap does not hurt. However if he isn't having a regular release he is going to end up in a lot of pain. it isn't your fault don't worry. as for sitting on his lap. if you straddle him you will be fine. if you are sitting side on with your butt in his lap you also don't have anything to worry about he will move you if it hurts.
You shouldn't cuddle with a guy and then sit on him if you don't want anything from him. It's pretty mean to get him so aroused and then leave him to deal with his problem on his own.
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How about you just move it to the side lol. Don't snap his penis in half trying to be cute 😅.
Your body weight won’t affect him unless you weigh 250-300 lbs or more. Just enjoy the ride. One day you will both be naked and you’ll really enjoy riding him.
If he’s hurting - you will see it in his face or eyes first.
You can stay sitting. His erection is not your responsibility.
Remove your clothes, and ask your boy, also, then sit on his lap, keeping his hard dick in your wet pussy
Just stop sitting on him. Otherwise you're going to end up teasing him. Being teased is only fun when it ends with you getting sex.
Sit down on him dry hump another form of teasing
This is gnarly
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