How to know when to hold her hand?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl are going on our first date to the movies and then a walk around the mall/lake. I really like her and I know she really likes me. I want to hold her hand but I don't want it to be awkward, so when is the best appropriate time to do it?

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Me and here are now going out, I held her hand and we kissed. THANX EVERYONE!

[mormongirlmichl]

try this...

grab her hand and say "tell me when it hurts"... and just hold her hand...

;) haha that's just a funny pick up line...

just go for it... especially if you're going for a walk after... it's only natural... you'll see when you're at a moment it'll just feel right...

and if you really can't, just honestly tell her "I really want to hold your hand, but I'm nervous about it..." she'll think it's super cute... at least I would think it's adorable! And would totally like the guy even more...

[mormongirlmichl]

Aww yay! I love a happy "ending" :)

[Asker]

Very happy haha thanx :]

[zombiechick5309]

well, my first hand-holding experience happened during a movie. so, maybe grab it while your watching the movie? like, if her hand is by her side, gently bumo it with yours and if she takes the bait, grab it. and when your walking around, and her hads at her side, do the same thing.

[haleyb]

Just grab it gently as you're walking side by side, don't over think it. She's on a date with you, so trust me, she'll like it. :)

[haleyb]

Thanks for the best answer! And congrats on the gf!!!!!!! :)

[Asker]

Haha I did what you said and she looked at me and smiled aha sooo perfect :] thanxxx

[haleyb]

Awwwwwww. reading that made me smile. glad it worked out :).

[Asker]

Aha yeahh, I had a really really bad heartbreak breakup a couple months ago and I thought I would never feel happy again, but now its all changed because of this girl, and now you because you helpedd :] <3

[Towsifynutnut1Khan]

When you are walking with her just hold her ever so softly and romantically. Don't do it when she is in a deep stare at a item or something. And the best thing would be to just say it, "I would really like t hold your hand as we walk" or "can I please hold your hand while we walk" or something similar. That way she would not creep out, but will be adored and pleased that you asked and think that you are really sweet.

[MrMartin3z]

Play it cool and walk closely and kind of bump hands from time to time. Then she will either go for it or you can.

[kittycat933]

Seriously, just go for it whenever you want to, but not too impulsively or else your nerves might make you feel uncomfortable or you might grip too tight. Personally I don't like a lot of affection from my guy most of the time, but I am a rare case, kind of a touch-me-not for casual scenarios.

[EvaRoxanne]

Pay attention to her at the movies... if she's leaning towards you and has her hand within easy reach, go for it, if she's sitting straight or leaning away or keeping her hands under her coat or in her lap or away, leave it alone.

[Reeses-pieces777]

I'd love it if a guy just held my hand if we're on a date and we're just walking around enjoying scenary. there really is no set place to do so.

[Anonymous]

Well like Kaitlyn711 said it's a no brainer if she grabs your hand. Or maybe when you start walking around the mall you could just quietly reach for her hand. If she really likes you I can't see why she wouldn't be happy to hold your hand.

[Opinion Owner]

(from the update) Awesome! Hope you're both really happy together!

[Kaitilyn711]

well if she grabs your hand its a no brainer. but when you start walking around and are talking and comfortable just reach for her hand if she's not ok with it she'll pull away and if not then you've successfully done it

[Asker]

Why not at the movies, we are going there first... I'm just wondering lol

[Kaitilyn711]

Ooo sorry didn't know yea def during the movie just kinda inch over and take hold of her hand

[Asker]

Haha okay :] thanx!

[imfierceyessir]

Maybe you shouldnt do that on the first date...wait til the second or something...

[Anonymous]

Anytime is the best time. But DON'T just walk into the movies and during the preview's or like 5 mins into the movie hold her hand. Oh and don't disturb her if she's eating. That's rude.

[Anonymous]

when you guys are walking around the mall or lake just grab her hand or if you two are laughing or chasing each other just grab her hand when you catch her or when she catches you

[Anonymous]

forget the hand. Go for the crotch.

[Baybaygurl]

No! Don't do that, you'll just freak her out.

[Nakor]

Haha this made me laugh in real life.

[eSHkidd]

This guy knows how to get some.

[Baybaygurl]

Not really. I kno a lot of girls if a guy did that he'd get slapped and they'd leave. So would I especialy on a first date!