Whats a guy thinking when he stares?

[hazeleyes91]

when a guy stares at a girl very often and smiles when doing so what could he be thinking?

[tazzy]

Well I was at the pub last night, taking my friends kid brother to show him a bit how to approach women and I told him ok go buy us a round and in the process scan the place for your targets. And as I stood there I just could not help but have a big smile at this girl who was really trying hard to party and laugh hysterically so that everyone can hear her. Trying really hard. me just stood there staring and smiling trying hard not to laugh.

I thought I would just share that because question reminded me.

But yeah in general if a guy stares at a girl and smiles, he's trying to convey his interest onto you. I would say that this guy is probably a shy kind of guy and does not know how to approach you directly.

Unless you're the girl in the pub laughing so much and really showing how desperate you are to be noticed :) :)

[hazeleyes91]

If he doesn't smile all the time and stare could it still mean he could like the girl?

[tazzy]

Well at least you can be sure it does not mean that he does not like you :) However it does mean that he has noticed you and is showing some interest in you. But not necessarily 100% say that he like *likes* you. Next time just smile back with a cute body language look on you, look him in the eye and he might just walk over to you or else just take the plunge and chat him up.

[blue-kev]

when this happens the guy is flirting. and the guy likes the girl. by smiling the guy is realy showing you how happy he would be with you. because looking at you makes him that happy. if this is happening rest assure that if you make a move the guy will respond. ask him to help you with the homework or if he would like to watch the football game togeather. when I coach women how to pick up men one technique I tell them is to bring up watching sports. even if your not into sports it takes the pressure off you and creates a relaxed environment. homework also takes the pressure off and puts it on the project. by creating a relaxed environment you can get guys that normaly would be out of your reach. by doing this it gives you an advantage over other girls. if you need any more advice jjust let me know.

[lost-angel]

Very interesting. I would like to know what guys have to say on this too.

[afterschoolgirl]

great question! I'm eager to hear answers on this, too.

[SuperFlanker]

I BET you would ;) there are a lot of directions this could go. Of course, the 'sexual' will at some level cross his mind... but he may just be in complete awe of her looks and could be wondering what chances he might have with winning her favor... however realize he's probably rendered 'powerless' at this point. He wouldn't know how to function

[Saraphim]

He is wondering about you.He wants to know you better. The innocent smile is to let you know he is having fond thoughts of you.Possibly a relationship?

[skegz]

Of course he thinks ur cute. go and have a mad chat and go from there guys don't usually stare at girls that they don't think are cute.

[obscene]

He thinks you're cute and he likes you!

Go talk to him!