It may depend upon his specific ethnicity and his family's cultural background.
Some Asian guys are pressured by their family to only date girls of the same ethnicity. Now that's certainly not always the case, and even if it's true, there are plenty of Asian guys who could care less what their family thinks of who they date.
But just in case that is a factor, it wouldn't hurt to try to introduce yourself to his family and try to get them to like you. That way he'll worry less about what his family might think if he starts dating you.
The second possible problem is that a lot of Asian guys assume that white girls aren't interested in them, so he may assume that you're only interested in him as a friend. This is added to the normal uncertainties that guys normally have when it comes to interpreting a girl's signals.
It's tough to come up with a strategy without knowing the guy's personality, but my basic advice would be to compliment him a lot, particularly in ways that emphasize his masculinity. Also, sabotage the game of your competition...lol I know that sounds bad, but Asian girls have really bad game, so it should be easy. In a positive way...like if your school has any dances, make sure he goes with you and not them. Don't be slutty, since that could be a turn-off, but don't be afraid to assert yourself.
Like with any relationship, there's always that risk of falling in the "friend zone". Doesn't have anything to do with race. But though I don't know the specifics of your situation, my hunch is that you shouldn't worry about this too much. Also, definitely don't worry about him not finding you attractive...I think he'd have something seriously wrong with him if that was the case! Also, if you presume that he finds you very attractive, you'll be more confident. Maybe I should add that you look almost Asian for a white girl.
How do you get white guys to notice you? What about black guys? Latin guys? I don't really see what the difference is here, I don't think there's some special method to getting a guy who happens to be Asian. What's he like? The best advice I think anyone can give you are 1) laugh at his jokes, 2) go out of your way to talk to him, 3) smile a lot, 4) touch him when you talk to him, 5) etc., etc., etc. You're a good looking person, just do what you'd do with any guy and I think you'll get what you want.
Haha! I know how this goes. I'm black but I'm usually into white and Asian guys. As such, it usually means that I have to be the one most" obvious about my affections. It sucks, because I'm rather shy when it comes to guys, but whatever. It's made me break out of my shell a lot more. Of course, this guy you like is the same as every other guy, but if he's not used to having girls of other races interested in him or has never really found anyone (non-Asian) he's ever been attracted to and you really like him, it means you have to take more initiative. The first Asian guy I ever liked was straight from Korea and I knew NOTHING about Korea - so I started looking at Kpop videos and drama's to learn a little more about the youth culture. When I brought up one video to him, he was SO excited that I was interested in learning more and we ended up hanging out a ton. Maybe you can do something like that.
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tell him he's cute and looks good you have to hint but really its all on him an an the link is not too great lol me personally I've dated more white girls then asian but sometimes he might wanna make asian babies but I'm mixed so hmm show him you want him an let him know you are interested talking helps an about anything almost just try to connect but don't worry if he not the asian guy for you there's plenty out there maybe looking for something different other then asian girls
walk by him, make sure you have eye contact, grab his hand and walk him around the corner to someplace private and then land a hug on him and whisper how you feel about him in his ears...if you are friends, he will either take this obvious sign and go with it or walk...he's not interested in you if he does the latter
It's all on the asian guy to step up on his own...
He might be a little intimidated by you.
Have him check out this site. (Actually, all single asian guys should check it out)
==> How to be an Asian Player
Direct a comment of another white girl's appearance towards him; in a magazine, walking around, whatever, then ask him what he thinks about her. He'll answer and you can follow up with questions like "Would you be interested in someone like her?" or "Have you ever thought of being with a white girl?"
eye contacts and attention! asian guys know it when you give enough signs. flirts work too but for asian, that's a little bit too open I guess.. asian culture
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