I think I have a Pen Pal Crush?

[Anonymous]

I meet this guy on the internet about four weeks ago. We talk here and there and over video chat.

The problem? I'm sort of been developing this "crush" on him. I think about him a lot. I don't know if this is normal.

He lives across the country so he's busy most of the time. Plus he's a lot older...

Is it a good idea to continue this? Or should I end this now and stop initiating conversations? Even though I'm sort of developing the feelings that I am developing now...

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+1 y

he's 9 years older.


But I'm of legal age. So it can't be that bad. Right now I'm just focused on being "friends" whatever that means.

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+1 y

I think you're right anon.


It's not going to go anywhere. Thanks :)

[Anonymous]

Well if you have a lot of doubts, it's probably best to end it. If you think it could possibly go somewhere and you're willing to take a chance, I'd say keep talking to him and see where things go. I've had crushes on people I've talked to online too. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't.

[ColtsFanForever]

how mush older is he? If he's not to much older then go for it. Let him know how you feel but watch how you do it because you don't want to freak him out and make it awkward for both of you