Girls...do you ever throw a wink at a guy?

Question

I was having a meeting with a guy who is really attractive and we were vibing and just really into the conversation. Unconsciously, I was talking to him and straight up winked at him! I didn't even realize that I was doing it until he kinda called me out...then HE winked Back at me...

Do you men find that attractive if a girl winks at you?

Will you wink back?

Is the wink a cute way of flirting and will you be more or less attracted to someone because of it...

KryHeart · Accepted Answer

Haha, I'm really shy, so I've never actually done it unless I'm totally goofing off with my friends. In fact, I've always thought it was super cheesy and stupid.

But then my boyfriend did it to me once at work, and it totally worked. I didn't realize how sexy it was until he did it, haha. We were at work though, and he did it after he dropped one of his little sexual hints (we have lots of "inside jokes" like that and he teases me with them all the time in front of others, who have no idea what's going on). I was instantly turned on.

I feel like winking almost puts you in a place of power. It's like saying, "Hey, I want you." or "I know things". It's sexy.

windy-rose · Accepted Answer

So, I can wink with both eyes. I have never used this as a form of flirting. (intentionally)

I also have a tendency to blink lopsided.

This has been misinterpreted as flirting by several guys over my life. It wasn't until one congenial guy-friend pointed it out to me that I had any idea that I was doing this.

One morning I caught myself going this in the mirror.

I am an unintentional seductress.

fml.

vishna · Accepted Answer

I wink to troll never to flirt haha

Lol if a guy winked at me I would laugh :)

I wouldn't be less attracted to someone if they did it but I would think they were joking unless they said they weren't...or were totally offended by my laughing :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Women at times say it is a bit feminine to wink but this little story you told us made me laugh

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a guy and I seem to often catch myself winking at guys.

RedSmartie · Answer

I usually only wink if I say an innuendo or am jokingly flirting with a friend, but I sometimes wink when actually flirting too.  I just think it's a little awkward.

jordygirl1010 · Answer

I'm TERRIBLE at flirting, and I really liked this guy, so my friend suggested that I wink at him. I tried to wink at him, and he got extremely concerned and asked if I had something in my eye. He insisted on helping me wash my eye out.

So bottom line: Winking at him did get his attention, but for the wrong reason.

jpinka · Answer

i don't because the guys who wink at me are old enough to be my dad so I dnt like it. feel like only the old pervs do it. this one guy even wiggled his fingers at me like a girl...so insulted.

i feel weird if I were to wink, like something was in my eye lol maybe just not sexy when I do it lol

IvyMH · Answer

I think its fine, as long as someone isn't overly using it!

snowangle · Answer

I can only successfully wink sometimes... but usually it just looks like I'm twitching lol. So I stick to my usual giggling and light touching to flirt.

Purplelove010 · Answer

I don't ever wink so I chose D. I don't think I'm confident enough to flirt.

CatholicVirginia · Answer

lol winks are a hit or miss for me, and usually they're a miss. I can't really wink any better than I can ride a bicycle!

Anonymous · Answer

I personally do not and would not wink at a guy. I think it's kinda lame and it would look so awkward if I tried. I'm not a flirty girl.

I recently had a guy wink at me and I thought it was adorable :) but I think he was trying to be sly and sexy. lol it still makes me smile and honestly I would have found it creepy if I wasn't so crazy about him. Was I supposed to wink back...I didn't know what to do

Anonymous · Answer

I can never get the wink down just right.  But its not how I prefer to flirt anyway.  I smile a lot...uncontrollably.  I also giggle a little.  And light touching comes in if I'm feeling bold enough.

blackrose21 · Answer

I wink all the time, especially to see what people do

Anonymous · Answer

I've thrown winks and also thrown drinks at guys.  It's better to be on the receiving end of the former option ;)

Anonymous · Answer

If I thin he's really hot and I look good then yeah I'll take the chance and go for it,

empiresex · Answer

so the winking is signal to come and get me I'm interested on you are you to ? does that the meaning I mean you could be on a bar wink a girl from distance if she comes mean she is interested on you the same both sex if a girl do it xD?

emzy-89 · Answer

It is definitely in my flirting repertoire but it's not one I do all of the time.

Anonymous · Answer

No I'm not that bold but I wish I was

Girls...do you ever throw a wink at a guy?

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