At around what age do most women start liking nice guys? Mid-to late twenties?

[Anonymous]

I know SOME females have always like nice guys but I AM ASKING WHEN do MOST females in the United States start wanting these type of guys.

[Anonymous]

The only reason guys don't understand girls always like nice people, whether it's girls or guys friends or potential boyfriend, is because these guys are compete drips, just total doormats. There is a different between being a nice guy and being a weak guy. Too many guys are weak and confuse it with being a nice guy. Nice guys are always attractive, why do you think teen girls love all these boy bands and Justin Bieber crap? All these guys do is portray a really nice guy image and sing about love and the girls eat it up.

Most self proclaimed nice guys are actually just weak guys or just pushover guys. Know the difference. Be an actual nice guy, and girls will like it.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I am in my mid 20s and I still don't like nice guys. if by nice guys you mean the weak, passive types who say that they are nice as a way to excuse why women don't like them. aka the "girls just like jerks/assholes/bad boys instead of nice guys like me" those types of guys are not attractive, they are usually either ugly or whiny or boring or have an annoying personality trait that they aren't aware of

[Anonymous]

Usually smarter more attractive women go for nice guys I've noticed. Bad boys are for daddy issues and just because they wanna fuck or are unconfident about themselves. It's not a difference between asshole and nice guys cause im a nice person but I'm an asshole to alpha bullies cause they're usually very dumb but nice guys are just not as aggressive as public so they miss their chance because they are over shadowed by loud alphas who think they are gods gift to women. Its just the approach that women decide whether someone us nice or not but in reality they don't know the truth.

[Tunakid]

I've heard that its in the thirties and higher when they want a relationship that lasts instead of just a fling. In the 20's people dont really want serious relationships (not all). That is why younger people go for assholes or douchebags.

[lovemylife22]

Some women love a challenge and unfortunately may not ever change. This solely depends on the woman. I would say when she is mature enough and knows exactly what she wants out of a man is when she will find someone that will treat her right. I do not think there is an actual age for this. All women have different preferences:)

[Anonymous]

Girls like men that are gentle, compassionate, sensitive and vulnerable... at times... They just like to also see he's confident, aggressive, mean, tough, and insensitive... at times... as well. :p They like the emotional push and pull and the challenge that comes with it all. You've got to be soft and hard simultaneously.

[Kinstrome]

What do you mean by nice guy Asker? Because sometimes what guys call "nice" isn't really nice. I think this list says pretty well what kinds of characteristics women are naturally attracted to:

www.nicknotas.com/.../

[miserybusiness]

I've just started venturing out into the dating world and I'm in my early 20s. Early 20s to mid 20s is about the same range for most of my friends.

But I'm in Canada so I guess I don't count for your survey results hahaha

[Asker]

In the United States most women in their early twenties definitely don't want to be in relationships with a nice guy

[HorrorFan]

Being nice doesn't repel women. Lacking other particular qualities does.

[lumos]

"Nice" is such an extremely bland term. I don't understand why guys think being "nice" is so groundbreaking. Being passionate, caring, loyal, honest, etc. is a lot more attractive than just being "nice". You should aim for being extraordinary.

[lumos]

And by the way, as far as I'm concerned, most people like nice people. Have you ever heard anyone say "ew, what a nice person, gross"? I don't think so.

[Asker]

Most females don't want to be in a relationship with a nice person until later on in life. I never said they didn't like them as a person.

[Anonymous]

im 20 and I've always liked my men gentlemen like and chivalrous lol
but then again my dad was awesome :)

the people i know (boys or girls) who go for jerks usually have some sort of underlying problem

[JackKerouac77]

I have no idea. When you find out, let me know.

[SillyQuirks_]

Mid twenties.

[Generosity]

Nice. What did you like before that?

[SillyQuirks_]

I still liked nice guys but I had poor judgement and was fine with looking past faults in a person. lol Mid-twenties are girl typically knows what she needs in a man... that of which is a man.

[Asker]

Do most of them start liking nice guys in their mid-twenties because they realized they made a mistake by choosing the wrong guys earlier on? They learned from their mistakes?

[SillyQuirks_]

It is both.

[Asker]

Yeah unfortunately most women have to get hurt first before choosing a nice guy.

[Nanda]

what a question...

[Asker]

Why?

[ForReals23]

personally 16

[Asker]

That is YOU, but I am asking about women in general

[ForReals23]

I don't know sorry im not old enough to realky say. my bad ?