as noclue222 states the two ways, I am guilty of both. it is hard to be around a guy that likes you and you don't like him back because I feel like if you are the same outgoing self around him that you are around others he might think you are interested and I hate to lead a guy on. it's a tough one and you can seem like a bitch if you act differently around him, but that's the way it goes sometimes. and you can't just come right out and say that you are not interested in him because first of all there is no concrete proof that he actually does like you and you will come off looking like an ass if you assume anything. it also sounds a bit arrogant assuming that someone likes you and then to go and flat out reject them before they have even confessed their alleged interest in you is embarrassing. I have also gotten shy around guys I liked as well. it all depends on the guy's personality that will determine how I act around him. if he is shy or standoffish it is that much worse because you then have no real opportunity to know what he is thinking or if he may be interested. I am lucky that I have had mutual interest in each relationship I have had. somehow in each one, we both had a mutual friend that was the go-between that brought us together. funny, but true. I would say give it more time, but pay attention to any patterns. I would say a pattern of certain things can be a good indicator.
Guys definate;y have it harder when it comes to this, because girls are SO much more subtle but:-
-Dropping hints i..e do you have a girlfriend? etc. type questions
-Asking your friends about you
-Laughing at even your most unfunny jokes
-Giggling a lot, tryign to act extra 'girly' around you
-Finding excuses to talk to you, i..e aking for your help with homewok, asking you random questions
-Looking at you inteblty and then looking away when you look back, cathign her staring at you randomly
-Genrally being a huge flirt, which some girls just are, but if she lieks you, she'll do it to you more than anyone else
...I have to say though, girls are very good at keeping this hidden, so you have to really keep an eye out for all those subtle things, like eye contact, lingering looks etc. I think those are the biggest giveaways xxx
The two biggest clues is eye contact or looking at you some people find eye contact uncomfortable so she may just look at your face, this dosen't just mean when she is stood with you but does she look at you when she's stood at a distance or even when she's stood talking to someone else. Do make sure she actually knows you are there when looking for that sign. the other is look how she acts with others is she different towards you than she is with every one else. for example she could talk normal and be very outgoing when talking to others but then when she comes to you she may pretend your not there or act shy or the seem to over talk and be a bit giddy. any way just observe her behavior towards you is it different to others. hope this helps
- Giving us the time of day.
- Getting ready to go out such as putting on make up, but mostly just looking nice.
- Not being afraid of hugging us or giving us a kiss no matter who's around.
- That certain smile when you see us.
- (When it's appropriate too, meaning not too fast) sending us a pic of you in a bikini or bra and panties. I know it might sound odd but we use that as motivation, wether its at the gym to get that extra set in or just to put a smile on our case.
Just be yourself. If you don't like us, tell us. Don't beat around the bush or lie about it. Don't say you're not looking if you know you are. Just say what it is that makes you not want that person. Then the person can improve that so that he can feel more confident, etc.
I Always Got Told Eye Contact And Smiling At You, Tbh I'm Pretty Horrible At Noticing Those Things Though, Its Because A. I'm Not Always Looking At Girls Thinking Do They Fancy Me?
B. When I Do Like A Girl Id Read To Much Into It, Thinking Oh She Looked At Me, But Generally That's Just My Mind Playing Tricks On Me. Wish They Flirted More Obviously Than Just Looking At You Slightly More Than They Think Is Normal lol
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I think if she keeps trying to be around you, like coming over to where you are or talking to you, striking up conversations, then that might be a good sign.
Another sign is if she ever touches you, that at least means she feels comfortable around you, which is good.
Giggling is another good one.
I think the way girls look at a guy is a big sign. If she gives you sly looks with twinkling eyes, or big puppy dog eyes, she probably has a crush on you haha.
Also if she keeps trying to look at your eyes, but when you try to give her eye contact, she looks down really fast, that's another one, especially if she looks right back up at you right away and kind of smiles.
if she always blocks out the important things just to be with you or talk to you,
when she always texts you of how you are, she probably likes you.
when she's staring at you and breathes really deeply and looks away,
she's probably daydreaming of you if you'll ever like a girl like her.
she'd always touch your hand on "accident" and hi-five you when she sees you.
if she stares long enough, she likes you alot.
one day she'll tell you that she really likes you.
girls usually give in. give her signs that you like her and if she does the same time you, she'll tell you one day.
goodluck.=)
i keep eye contact for more that 2 seconds ...
look at his direction and wait until he catches me looking and then look away so quickly as if I didn't want him to find out...
stay at the place he is and always around him ...
being hot and cold, as sometimes at the beginning of a day I just totally ignores him and after sometime when he got confused I just stop ignoring him and pay him attention...
like one time I was passing by him from distance and I was counting "he loves me he loves me not" and he was laughing :D:D...it was really fun ...
just catch on the subtle hints because girls are really subtle when they tend to like someone and show signs of interest and not that clear as guys are ...
Movements :::::
acting shy or extra loud
looking extra pretty
winks
smiles
touching you arms, chest & face
random hugs
kiss cheek
eye contact
random giggles
fixing & playing with hair
Give you cute nicknames like : cutie, babe, boo, sexy & sweetheart..ect
Questions:
When she asks you what type of girls your into?
Why are you single?
Whats your favorite food/ sport/ color ?
What do you think about me?
Do you find me attractive?
when she makes up an excuse to talk to you.
she want to know where you are.
when she stares deep into your eyes for more than any other person.
she giggles at even your most worst jokes.
she asks if you have a girlfriend.
but you can never tell. this girl did all of those things mentioned to me once and she says she isn't my type. WTF?
when they talk to you a lot
when they barely ever talk to you
when they constantly make eye contact
when they never make eye contact
when they act really confident around you
when they act really shy around you
when they act really nice to you
when they constantly tease you
girls are complicated, that's for sure.
Even if I'm not directly talking to you, I would want to be near so there is a possibility of us talking. If you notice a girl who is always hanging around you, and adjusting her hair and clothes, that's a pretty good sign. But you also have to think about whether she acts like that around everyone or just you.
Im shy, so I don't think I show that many signs. But what I normally do when I like someone is laugh and smile a lot. And that goes with a lot of girls, shy or not.
Maybe another is just trying to be with you at all times, trust us, we are not trying to be annoying
Well ... I'd say shyness is a pretty sure fire one. Whenever I've really honestly liked a guy there's always been a little of that. Also laughter a girl who likes you will definitely show you she thinks you're funny... it's the easiest way to communicate you like someone subtly without them completely being able to catch on.
But honestly the easiest way to know is just by time... a girl who really likes you will stick it out, and it won't be an effort for her.
stares at you a lot
plays with her hair and giggles at your lame jokes
when you catch her looking at you she quickly looks away and acts like she was looking at someone else or the clock
if she's confident she will try to talk/ be near you
she will try to get your attention
Well, if they always talk to you, if they often compliment you, or even tell you they like you. Those are the most obvious, there's a lot of other harder to tell ways that a girl will have to tell you herself. If you know the girl ok, don't be afraid to ask her if she likes you, if she does, she'll tell you or try to hide it if she doesn't know you like her, or she'll just say no. Tell her sooner than later though. Don't end up like me and waiting till she's allready gotten in a relationship.
well when I like a guy I try to talk to him a lot, but mostly only when spoken to. to make sure he likes me. I don't want to be the one ALWAYS starting the convo, so if he says something, for example in class, ill keep the convo going and then after a while if were taking notes ill think alright its my turn to start and so I do lol. I also try to make a point to look at him in the eye, and look deep into his eyes, but not that much, I don't normally look guys in the eyes like that.
keeping direct eye contact
lots of touching
smiling
giggling
if she talks to you a lot and wants to know more about you.
and if she tells you hahah obvioius. :)
i can barely keep eye contact sometimes and at other times I can't stop looking into their eyes. I'm VERY obviously nervous
if I like a guy, I'll let him know. I'll definitely flirt with him & I won't be my usual cynical self
She stares at you when your not looking and maybe even when you are
She might start to blush when your around
If she was talking to her friends and then you come around she stops talking
randomly giggling
can't keep eye contact when she's talking to you
i think if I were interested in a guy I would try to get him to notice me as much as possible, and try to show off for him. I'd probably try to act cute, and I'd be nervous too. Id fiddle with my shirt or hair.
If she blushes, has dialated pupils (larger than normal), fidgets, smiles a LOT , laughs atlame jokes and most important of all: bites her lip, if happens during conversation, you can pack her up and take her home ;)
Sometimes they talk to you about homework or anything really when they've never talked to you before. OR she asks your friends about you... It all depends on the girl.
You'll never know. They don't give you big enough signs. Its impossible to decipher whether a girl is just being nice or likes you...
They expect you to be a mind reader. They won't give an inch
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