So the time passed and he kept hinting and telling me how he cares about me. And even though I was sceptic about his feelings, because he's one of those with good looks, flirting with every girl, I felt obligated to tell him I am not interested, so I wouldn't lead him on. And he would stop for a while, unless he was drunk, and then it all started again. It messed with my head, because I was sure I wanted the first guy and I was all in, but I loved talking to this friend and we just got along so well, except when we had those huge fights. I told him I was not interested again and he was sort of really upset this time and I started to avoid him, because I know I wouldn't exactly want to be around someone I liked for a while, if they rejected me. Then we were cool again.
However, shit went down with this other guy recently and I've decided I was done and I it surprised me how I didn't really give a crap, because I had this friend by my side, even though I never told him I'm seeing someone, because I didn't see how it's his business. And so that asshole is out of the way and I suddenly realized that I think I like this friend, like really. He's so good to me and he looks at me like I am the prize.
So now I wonder if I actually like him or do I just like being liked and pursued by this cute guy, who's really really patient with me and my indecisivness. I just want to be sure, before I hurt him. So, thoughts? What do I do?
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