Why do beautiful perfect looking girls think they are not beautiful or beautiful enough?

[Anonymous]

[MikkyLachae]

Guys (and girls) tell me I'm pretty and I feel ugly most of the time. I was advised to look in the mirror every time I felt like shit and it made me feel better. My reason is because the people around me told me I was ugly and my authority figures punished me for "being pretty" for a long time. Deductive reasoning tells you that if multiple people tell you the same thing, they must be right. And by punished for being pretty, I meant that if some boy wanted to be my friend or if some weird man was looking at me inappropriately I'd have to sit through a lecture, be forced to wear clothes too big for me with a sticky pen in them (ouch!), be told how much I was hated, or be called fast which is basically being called a slut but I was a virgin then (obviously) and I'm still one now. I wouldn't say I look perfect though.

[doobie345621]

I feel like when you're actually pretty, you focus more on your looks. Because even if someones pretty they will always want to be more pretty. I've noticed people that are below average are usually more accepting of themselves because they know they're not attractive so they're not constantly trying to make themselves prettier because they know it's pointless.

[grlygirl91]

Because we compare ourselves to bikini models. Celebreties etc. it might also come from what your man likes etc. you may know you look great in general but if you know your boyfriend has a stecific type (e. g curvy, slender, short, tall etc) and u dont fit that type you might feel insecure

[Polocrew]

Lol I saw em lot of whisper, it's cos that app is filled with people just looking for compliments lol they'd eben rate a whale straight outta Pacific a 10 and would tell her she's beautiful

[BellePepper]

Good example polo. Now we have a great example of why girls have so many issues. Great work.

[Polocrew]

@BellePepper because they re fat? Lol

[BellePepper]

You are so good at proving me right! Ty!

[Polocrew]

@BellePepper i. Don't get it lol

[Polocrew]

J erk ass who got 100q pounds on u little man, yea lol

[BellePepper]

OP does it look like I need help here or do I seem to have this situation under control?

@polocrew you don't get how your attitudes about women's appearances contribute to oppressive and constant all or nothing messages about women and their bodies?

[Asker]

lol hey, polo learn to type without boxing your penis , and respect the ladies.

[Polocrew]

Op, Try to get laid and shit like this irl without weggied nerd lol

[Polocrew]

@BellePepper wait what lol wtf u guys talking about lol Weren't you just appericiating my example? Ha

[BellePepper]

Polo you're a good example of why a bad thing is bad. That's not a good thing.

[Asker]

@BellePepper you said it sister.

[Polocrew]

@BellePepper wwatevrr u on, I want on llao

[BellePepper]

bro you're already on more than I am with your "llao"s XD

[Polocrew]

@BellePepper lmaoo hell yea I am

[BellePepper]

LOL!

[ConsultantIsBack]

Everyone gets cut down by some bitch/loser. You can have a perfect body and there'll always be people to criticize. So some girls are insecure because of that.

[rlittledistraction]

Because society is a f**king b*tch. Girls are extremely criticizing to one another as well which plays on self esteem.

[Asker]

why would a girl care what another girl thinks? why dont they listen to guys and how we try to compliment them in loving ways, telling her she's beautiful, or checking her out etc?

[rlittledistraction]

Well some don't care. I really try not to. But girls are always competing with one another even if they don't realize it.

[xXiTacoXx]

Because they were probably ugly as kids and got picked on for it, and then BOOM... puberty blessed them.

[helloitsmethere]

The ones who are really good looking and don't see it? There is a pretty HIGH chance that they were severely bullied for their looks, impacted their self esteem A LOT, and then grow into adulthood still being insecure af...

[James0]

Because there are people who put them down just for being beautiful

[Asker]

yeah! jealous girls do that to other girls but I've never heard of guys doing that

[James0]

You haven't seen the worst in people then... there are guys that hate pretty girls for their own reasons

[Jkristein]

My girlfriend is gorgeous but she hates her face, I asked her if she actually thought so or was just saying.
She overexagerates but she actually doesn't like it. She says it's because there are way prettier girls.

[Tarvold]

Because those girls get to see themselves in the morning without makeup.

[PizzaSlut4u]

They know they're beautiul, they're just seeking attention.