I like my girlfriend too much, she doesn't like me as much as I like her. How do I lower my attachment?

[moraff12]

I am tired of feeling on the bottom of the relationship and I am determined to do it. I want my girlfriend to respect me and someday love me. But until then I don't want to care that much about her. What I am looking for is that I want to feel even if she dumps me, that I would not care that much.

[MeuAmor]

Relax and just loosen up and remind yourself it's not that serious as of right now. Stop trying to have the upper-hand and making the things into a silent power struggle type of situation that's how some problems in the relationships occur. What do you mean respect you? She doesn't respect you now? Set boundaries if you're feeling there's a problem with something she's doing to you.