How do you make a guy hate you? I need tips.

[Anonymous]

This guy wants me really bad and I told him to go away. He started to cry. So I feel bad. So if I can make him hate me and fine me gross or whatever at least he would leave me and I would not feel so bad about it!

[Anonymous]

haha just become the exact things guys hate: obsessive, way too girly, clingy, tell him he's the savior of your hopes and dreams and you want to be with him forever, etc, or maybe not this extreme lol. it worked with a guy who liked me. I just started acting like a huge hoe and was really annoying until he decided he didn't like me. it let him off easy without him hating himself and got him away for good. as much as guys hate to admit it, they like the girls that are hard to get and they love the chase. the more we reject them, the more they come, so we have to do the exact opposite and act like we are in obsesed with them! oh, and start venting all your feelings about how horrible your day was and how mean this one girl was to you or something lol. guys hate that too.

[iraya92]

Tell him something gross about yourself. Like You like to collect...earwax, or pick your tummybutton or something so he'll be grossed out :D

Just kiddding. What I did once, was tell him I didn't like him at all. I felt bad but he got the idea and eventually stopped. He really hated me through last year of high school though. Like reaaaally hated me. I don't know how much hate you are looking for.

[bbianca94]

holy sh*t I feel your pain... I've had guys make my life hell once I rejected them...like one time a guy at a party tried really hard to get on me and I kept telling him no until he gave up. for the next few months at school there was a lovely rumor that at that party I tried to rape him while he was passed out and I was a "horrible kisser" ... gotta love boys lol

[iraya92]

omg! how the hell do you rape a boy?! Lol!

Yeah guys can be a pain =/ But what can we do? :p

[Anonymous]

i never did anything intentionally like you want to, but this guy really liked me and I never saw him in that way he was like a brother to me o.O plus he was a coworker so I just avoided him and never made eyecontact and I had so much other stress on my mind I almost gave him an attitude if he walked by me like I never acknowledged him and he lost interest in me

[sweet_18]

lmao. Tell him that when you clip your toenails, you like to eat the clippings

[Asker]

lol

[MaxwellSmart]

Let me tell you, you don't know what you are saying. You don't want ANYBODY, I don't care how annoying that person is, to hate you, it is a horrible feeling. One time this girl tried to pull that one off on me, I was having a bad day and I mopped the floor with her (verbally) until she started to cry and begged me to stop. SOmetimes is better to look the other way and try to be nice even if you dislike the person. You think him crying is pathetic? How pathetic is it is when a guy you don't give a crap for reaches so deep you start to cry? She always told me she didn't care about what I thought of her, tough words for a woman who was BEGGING me to stop saying things about her. Just let it go and deal with it.

[dx021]

seriously? Just laugh at him and tell him he's pathetic.

It's mean, but it'd probably be more beneficial for him than being let off easy. If you let him off easy, he'll slink off and be all sad, imagining a happily ever after he's been robbed of (like weak p**** types tend to do). if you're cruel, it might just motivate him to look in the mirror and re-evaluate his pathetic behavior. think of it as tough love.

just a thought.

[Asker]

Thank you. I can use this.

[justanotherguy00001]

He starts to cry? I was going to disagree with this comment. But a crying dude because of rejection is... pathetic.

It might backfire though. Not only being rejected of the woman of his dreams, he also is the ridicule of the school.

I'm not saying it will happen, but I wouldn't write off suicide if he's too unstable already.

[pianoist]

Heyyyy, super uncalled for!

Some people do cry due to rejection you know?

For example, I've cried because of rejection when I was in 4th grade.

[dx021]

*shrug* bottom line, him crying like a little bitch is probably due to his own weakness as a man; this QA is just a victim of his pathetic crusade for love.

she would be doing him an absolute favor by slapping some sense into him

[AlexCab]

That's not the way to go. You did your part and explained, now it's up to him to man up and move on. If he doesn't get it, keep saying no, start replying harsher and harsher till the guy gets it. You don't want him to hate you, just to stop bothering you.

If he gets too heavy there's always a restraining order :)

[Anonymous]

I would take a good hard look at yourself and try to handle this like an adult. Don't toy with him, don't tease him or yell at him. You are much too old for this type of behavior. Just leave the poor guy alone and be done with it. Is it really that hard?

[sovetskii13]

Embarrass him in front of the whole school in some way. You know something about him? Try finding a way to use that against him.

[BCRanger10]

He already might after that. Even so, why not just be consistent? Tell him that you're flattered but not interested.

[Asker]

I did and he cried.

[BCRanger10]

Yes, but has he continued approaching you?

[Asker]

Yes!

[BCRanger10]

Then keep telling him you're not interested. How many times has he come to you?

[Asker]

He knows where I live has my number is on my Facebook. So I have to get him to break up with me. that's the only way I can be free from him and not hurt his feeling.

[CanUSeeRJB]

act like a bitch to him do what this girl did to me. always try to get him in trouble tell him he's a creep even if you don't think so talk sh*t all the time turn your family against him

[smsms01]

Like others shave been saying, its time for some tough love. Personally I would recommend finding out what he really doesn't like and start doing that around him, best case he drops and runs

[doctorwhofan23]

Why not just explain to him that you don't like him like that nicely.

[Asker]

I did and he cried. I felt so bad.

[doctorwhofan23]

Try to be nice again

[Asker]

I rather he end it than him being sad. He's in love with me.

[Anonymous]

Don't talk to him. Make a couple of plans with him, then cancel last minute with something. Then stop talking to him.

[shareeny]

are you really in your late 20's?

[Anonymous]

Start seeing his best friend