After we broke up I met new people and some guys started showing interest, but it was always like not serious, or you could tell it was because someone else had turned them down. Nowadays I still get attention but it seems to me it's never serious, like no one actually really likes me for me. Some people call me pretty now, and if I go out some guys hit on me... but that's so superficial it could just be desperation.
I just don't think I'm the "beautiful girl next door" guys tend to like and idealize. I feel like the ugly, easy whore... I'm not easy, but I fear guys see me as "less pretty" and think I might be desperate and therefore easy... some guys actually believe ugly girls are easier.
So I feel too ugly to find someone, I mean there are so many beautiful girls, so many beautiful, intelligent awesome girls... that, whoin his right mind would pick me? :( I met a great guy recently, he's so smart and nice, even a little geeky which I love, and he's really nice to me, but there are so many prettier girls who he could get along with better... I don't know what I'm saying, I guess I feel I'm not worthy. Not for him, not for anyone.
By the way it's not that I have high standards... I tend to like guys who most people describe as average or even ugly (though I see them as attractive).
I guess my fate is to be loveless and become a spinster... but I crave affection, sexual intimacy, feeling beautiful and lovable... I know it's not for me, though. How can I get accustomed to the notion of being alone, single forever, and happy with that?
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