Why do men only care about sex and busting a nut?

[Anonymous]

Geez the only thing men seem toc care about is filling holes. If its a hole, then its a goal for them.

[ShallowNight26]

I care about truth, commitment, interpersonal intimacy (that is emotional closeness). Sex is to be shared with someone I intend to dedicate part of my future to be with, and to see to it she's physically satisfied as well. It is a mutual thing. IF there is no trust, and no intimacy between her and me I can't get interested in something that holds no future. It is empty and unsatisfying. So simply no it is not the only thing ALL men care about. Grant it, I know one guy that fits your assumption. Just remember, if you assume, you makes an ass (of) U & ME.

[Asker]

I have met a lot of men like that. Just because I do not have sex with them does not change the fact that they are pigs. Most guys will approach me and be too sexual

[lucky1234567]

haha, yeah we do think about sex most of the time.

[Asker]

Exactly.

[Victoriacourtney]

Humans are animals and react the same way as any other creature. The male's intention in life is to reproduce and multiply. The female's intention is to care for the children. It's like this for humans too, although we're smarter, but we still have the natural instincts. Guys go crazy in teenage years because that's when females have periods and they mature. If we weren't smart today, men wouldn't be sticking around at all or thinking about commitment. Be happy at least some are that way.

[BrittBratt2416]

in this day and age I can see why you feel that way, l But in the real world there ar men out there who don't just want sex from a woman, there are men who want an actual relationship. I just think both sexes get fustrated, I see guys on here say all women want either chad or just money and girls say what you're saying but it not 100 percent true.

[KittyImpala67]

That's not fair to men, not all of them are like that, just the jerks who like to pretend they get laid regularly. You can't paint them all with that same brush, it's like men saying all women are PMSy bitches; although I must say you seem to be deserving of the title.

[Asker]

Really. Passive aggressive bitch you do not know anything about me.

[KittyImpala67]

You don't know anything about the men here but you're cussing at them. Take a good look at yourself.

[Asker]

Kindly fuck off. You are adding nothing to the conversation. You are just mad because I am defending myself.

[KittyImpala67]

No I'm mad because you're contradicting yourself. A strong woman who respects herself more than the men she meets, doesn't tear those men down. And she certainly doesn't hide behind anonymous

[Asker]

You are mad because I am cussing at men on here who assumed that I sleep around, and you are defendng them. Take a good look at yourself

[Asker]

You would not know anything about a strong woman if it hit you in the face. Also every one online is anon. Or is your real name kittyimpala

[KittyImpala67]

They assumed jack shit. You're cussing out the rude guys but you're also cussing out the good ones. I know what a strong woman is because that's what I aspire to be. And yea actually my name is Katherine and I drive an impala and my godfather is 67 so... not so anon as you. You didn't open this to have a discussion, you opened this question to bitch at men who mean well, nothing anyone says will please you and that's your problem.

[Asker]

A strong women does not have the impulse to defend men who say sleazy things about a women who are cussed at in return which you clearly did and are still doing. Defending men who talked shit to me and getting mad at me for defending myself. A contradiction

[Asker]

Oh so you expected to have an open discussion with me after giving me a passive aggressive opinion. Im not discussing shit with you

[KittyImpala67]

I get that men who say shit are dicks, I'm not defending them, I'm defending the ones who gave honest answers that didn't meet your whims. You can defend yourself, but do it like the grown up you think you are, then the rest of us will take you seriously. Only a child has to have the last word on everything and by replying you're proving this.

[Asker]

This is my question. Wtf are you talking about. You can fuck off. No one is forcing you to keep coming to my question.

[Asker]

You are the one who keeps replying under other opinions to defend men.

[KittyImpala67]

That's not a question, there's no question mark, child. I feel the need to come back because who else is going to stick up for the good guys? Clearly not any of the other girls here who think just like you. Except for you @BrittBratt2416

Reread your whole question, if you were someone else and you read this with no idea why you're so pissed would you have any sympathy for yourself at all?

[KittyImpala67]

Yea because they deserve to be defended against such hatred. There are lots here I won't touch with a ten foot pole because they're rude, but the few who are being nice don't deserve your issues

[Asker]

Lol so you decide to tag someone else childish. Im telling you to fuck off. Clearly you are mad. No you keep replying because you are a hypocrite. Childish :)

[Asker]

You never tried to help. Now you are just joking

[KittyImpala67]

I'm not going to fuck off, I want to know why you hate men so much. I'll badger you till you tell me, childish or not I'm enjoying the banter

[Asker]

If you have to keep calling yourself a grown up, then most likely you are not one

[KittyImpala67]

I know I'm not a grown up, I'm 20 for God's sake, I'm just more grown up than you. Now humour me

[Asker]

Wow at least you finally admitted that you were not trying to help

[KittyImpala67]

Well I was, but then I realized you don't want help you want to be vindicated

[Asker]

You assumed I hated men, and in a circle we go. You are immature.

[Asker]

Now you fuck off

[KittyImpala67]

Well you haven't given me any proof to the contrary, and how dare you middle finger the rest of us for assumptions when your whole question is one? I'm happy here, I think I'll stay, I'm indirectly helping you release pent up anger

[Asker]

The only angry person here is you. Im laughing at you

[KittyImpala67]

Aw I made you laugh :)

[Asker]

And apparently you enjoy replying on my questions even after I ignored you. Do you really want my attention that badly? Ha ha :)

[Kaylyne]

It's a well known fact that since the beginning of time, men have always been led by their head, that's the one between their legs of course! lol :)

[Kaylyne]

Thank you very much indeed for the MHO.

[Asker]

No problem

[Anonymia]

Mating strategies are all different & while men can have more sex with few risks that isn't always the best long-term strategy. Some men actually like the idea of a long term mate to raise a family with

[Asker]

Fuck off

[KittyImpala67]

Hey Asker he's giving an opinion, there's no need to be rude about it.

[randomuser94]

1) that's not true. it's a very strong urge but far from all that matters

2) it's the only reason why you, your family, friends, everyone you know are here. that sex drive is hard wired into us to ensure the survival of our species. be thankful we are not like other animals who have a mating period where they go off fighting, killing, and drinking piss for a few weeks.

[Anonymous]

Because we're horny every day, probably not getting sex and that desire is only fueled every day also in all the media. As far as the relationship side goes, some women make it too complicated, not only the dating but just being in the relationship (too much drama). There it is, the real reason.

[realityphil]

the main thing i care about woman is sex and her good looks.
i think it's just biology thing.

[Asker]

Why won't most men admit this?

[realityphil]

why would you take a shit in your own meal? similar happens when you ask women about importance of looks, hot guys and sex.

[likitb4istickit]

Eh I want to make her "bust a nut" too. It's true that if I think she's hot I want to pop mini me in her mouth and pussy, but eating said pussy is almost as fun as coming in her mouth. That's just the way men are programmed, deal with it.

[Nik1hil]

We are hunter we are programmed to hit the bulls eye,..
Weather it's for hunting and animal,
A target on battlefield
A shooting range
Or coming from women's body

[AleDeEurope]

No, we care about much more, but if you don't offer anything we want, then I guess sex is all you offer.
I mean, if sex is all guys want from you, I think you need to take a look in the mirror... just saying.

[Asker]

So you are blaming women for men's problems. Im not surprised

[Asker]

Im not having sex with these dudes. Most Men approach me trying to get sex or with sexual intentions up front. I can not control what men say.

[Asker]

@Anonymia oh so we are victim blaming now are we? I do not dress sexual at all. Yet I get honked at and catcalled whenever I am out. I usually wear t shirts and loose pants

[KittyImpala67]

I get that catcalls and stuff are annoying AF but that doesn't give you the right to make assumptions about all the other men. AleDeEurope is right, some men care about women the way they should

[Asker]

@KittyImpala67 he is wrong, he basically just assumed that sex was all i had to offer. Where in his post did he say some men care about women the way they should?

[KittyImpala67]

"No, we care about much more" He's just trying to make a point and he is making the assumption that you're just a boring person with just one thing going for you, which is wrong of him, but you're not helping your case by snarling at him. And he shouldn't make that assumption, but you can't get mad at him for that when you're making assumptions left right and center

[Asker]

@KittyImpala67 ha ha you can not tell a person how they should feel

[KittyImpala67]

I'm not I'm telling you how to act like a grown up

[Asker]

@KittyImpala67 but you are telling me how to act like a child. Clearly you are. You keep replying yet you call me a child for replying on my question. Hypocrite

[KittyImpala67]

Oh so a child doesn't make assumptions and cuss at grown ups for trying to help?

[AleDeEurope]

So you're not smart enough to not take everything literally? When I said "you" I wasn't directly referring to YOU, the asker, but "you" as a general term, the reader, any person who guys actually just want for sex.
I wasn't assuming, but now I will. I will assume that given how offended you seem by what I said, that sex is all you have to offer, clearly with that attitude, you don't seem to be something guys would want to spend more than 30 minutes with.

Have a nice day.

[AleDeEurope]

Pathetic lol

[Asker]

Only person that sounds offended is you. Now hush little boy. Get off the internet

[AleDeEurope]

Offended? I told you how things usually work, I answered your question, you thought I was referring to you so you started insulting me... xD

[Asker]

How typical, you trying to play the victim when you obviously insulted me first. :)

[AleDeEurope]

How did I insult you? Holy shit you're ridiculous, no wonder you went anonymous xD

[Asker]

The fact that you have to ask that truly shows how ridiculous and dense you are. I find interesing how you went from telling me to have a nice day to calling me ridiculous. Stay mad. And keep using that lame excuse of "it was not a literal you"

[KittyImpala67]

My God does someone have popcorn? This feels like a popcorn moment :)

[AleDeEurope]

Lol if you took offense from that, then I guess you identify with it.
Listen, I'm sorry guys just want you for sex. I'm sorry there's nothing else you offer to the world. But that's not my fault, you can insult me and be bitter towards me and men in general, but it won't change anything, you'll just remain a cum dumpster.

[Asker]

@Aledeeurope oh look you are a internet tough guy. Im sorry to mess up your misogynist fantasy of all women being sluts but I do not sleep around. Just because you blame women as an excuse as to why no women wants you, does not mean that every girl is a cum dumpster. Keep trying. I can tell I pissed you off. It is making me laugh :)

[KittyImpala67]

My goodness she's laughing buckets today :) @AleDeEurope hi five we done good!

[AleDeEurope]

Shhhh it's ok :)

[Anonymia]

Man you two would be cute together @aledeeurope & @kitttimpala67

[KittyImpala67]

@Anonymia I can agree, two very argumentative people with great sense of humour; perfect match :)

[AleDeEurope]

@Anonymia Agreed ;)

[Asker]

@Anonymia I agree. Even ugly people like them need love :) <3

[Jager66]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlz6cNanc0A

[jman46241]

I'm guessing you got played and want to blame all men..

[Asker]

Thats funny you say that because I have not dated nor have I been sexually active in the past 4 years so...

[jman46241]

Then why are you whining?

[Asker]

Im not whining im being honest

[Kgbmafia]

we were put on this earth to reproduce. Thats it. Men have a high sex drive.

[Anonymous]

If that weren't the case, women would be worth far less than the biologically intrinsic sex objects that they are, it is literally the biggest advantage the female gender has (disparity in sexual attraction between genders).

[Opinion Owner]

And seriously male sexuality is angelic compared to the narcissism and prostitution that is female sexuality, women are literally more sexually attracted to themselves than men.

[DanReynolds]

Man you should post a question or mytake on this, seriously you have many vailid points

[Opinion Owner]

I did a mytake on all women being bisexual but it got very little attention. So I ask questions and treat them as mytakes, imposing my knowledge on people, some get annoyed, I enjoy it.

[Asker]

That is because not all women are bisexual

[Opinion Owner]

They most certainly are

[Asker]

Where are the resources to back this up?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol at anyone who believes women are heterosexual, they are all bisexual, they consume 2.5 times as much lesbian porn as guys and it's is by far the most popular genre of porn to the female demographic (pornhub statistics,). "straight" women are also literally more aroused by the female body than the male body, indiana. edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007. pdf (read that, it's scientifically sound proof). Playboy once did a test where women where aroused by a lap dance by both male and female strippers, while men where only aroused by female strippers.

Most women will make out with other girls after minimal alcohol, and will be willing to do sexual things to another girl during an ffm threesome.
Normally the thing that makes a girl want to have sex with a guy will be non physical, non gender specific traits and will need these non gender specific traits to feel sexual attraction to them in the first place.

[Opinion Owner]

Female sexuality is fluid while men have a hard wired sexual orientation. Anthropologists say women don't actually have a sexual orientation, just an amorphous mess based off sexual narcissistic self affirmation.

Disagree with me if you want but there is far to much evidence (both scientific and anecdotal) to consider heterosexuality the female default, look up female sexual fluidity and see that anthropologists and neuroscientists agree with me (well I agree with them). Women are more visually attracted to themselves auto-erotic and are closer to being lesbian than straight if you are being pedantic about it.

[Asker]

That does not mean that all women do this

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well some people are allergic to water. This is what most females are, and how female sexuality should be seen, women don't actually have a sexual orientation, just an amorphous mess based off sexual narcissistic self affirmation!

[Opinion Owner]

Female sexuality makes male sexuality seem angelic

[DanReynolds]

Man could you link me to some of your questions/ mytakes id be interested in reading the answers

[Noodle_fan]

So some men on real life dissappoint you and you decided to bash random stranger of internet for revenge

Well , if that really helped you to feel better..

[John_Doesnt]

Because you should have learned about evolution in school.

[John_Doesnt]

then you should already know that men want sex to prolong the human race.

[Iraqveteran666]

Not always the case but we wouldn't be men if it was otherwise

[Anonymous]

And yet it's the women's choice to regulate if they get to bust a nut in there holes lol.

[Asker]

Men are rapists

[Tyrael]

Women can commit rape too moron

[Asker]

@Tyrael no they can not

[Tyrael]

Clearly you've still got some growing up to do. Good luck with the sex.

[Asker]

@Tyrael good luck with your delusions. Im not sexually active and I have not had sex in over 3 years.

[Tyrael]

That might explain why you're so uptight. Woman absolutely can commit rape by the way, it's not like I'm just making it up go look it up.

[Asker]

@Tyrael no im not a horndog like men are

[Cartoonfish863]

All animals are like this. Men are no different it's nature I'm afraid

[LastNightmare]

that's true. it's men's choice and behavior a that's how all male are made up.

[Anonymous]

Because that's all that's important. It feels good :)

[wankiam]

you are confusing boys with men

[Asker]

Whats the difference because they sound like the same gender

[wankiam]

maturity... boys wanna fuck, men want to build a life

[Asker]

But there are men in their 30s who just want to fuck. Yet they are still men.

[Anonymous]

You're a fuckin genius. How did you figure us out so fast? You're only 18 - 24...