Is it inappropriate for a married man to hug a female friend if his wife has never met her?

[Anonymous]

I know it's acceptable for married people to hug friends, but to me it seems shady if the friend is someone the man's spouse has never met. This man and friend have been friends for a couple of years.

I'd also like to point out that said man is not the touchy type from what I'm gathering. It just seems off. Am I reading too much into it?

Updates

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Thanks for the feedback everyone. This wasn't about me. It's a situation I'm seeing unfold between a friend and a guy she's into. I'm worried that she's getting played by this guy and I don't want to see her get hurt, but maybe I'm reading too much into it. It's just not sitting right with me though.

[Justinaveragedude]

it's not that weird, you are reading more into then you should be. If you are the spouse of the man in question you can tell him how you feel, but honestly, it's just a hug. My best friend's wife hugs people she just met. That is just who she is, he is the same way. it's honestly just hug. Now a lingering hug, that is different, but a hug...

[Caaarl]

Yes you are being way too possessive a hug is in no way an indicator of anything wrong going on. It just either means that they're close friends or that's just how they show friendship.

[Caaarl]

It's appropriate*

[Asker]

I'm not being overpossesive as this isn't about me. It's a situation I'm seeing unfold with a friend. It's just really rubbing me the wrong way. I'm just afraid she's going to end up hurt.

[Caaarl]

If it's just hugging that doesn't mean anything. Girls generally go in for hugs it can be platonic as can be.

[onewoundedgal]

No. If it's a genuine friendly hug with nothing emotionally attach I don't see why that would be a problem. People in church hug each other and partners are not around. So does that mean they want each other? I'm sure a lot of them have pure intentions.

[19magic]

nah I hug all my friends, one of them being a man in his 40s who's married. I've never met his wife but he talks very affectionately about her and I would never view him that way anyway.

[catsarecute]

it is strange if he is not the touchy type. i personally dont touch other human beans unless i am close to them, or they are important to me

[ibotje]

I don't think it matters. you should still have your own life even after marriage.

this is why the meme "a man's life ends when he gets married" excists. although it seems to have kinda died now

[meatballs21]

No. My closest female friend hugged me in front of my now-fiancée and her boyfriend (we'd never met as couples before)

[alice55]

If it's not family it's. Hug are very personal (in my country) and are only done with close family or best friend.

[Lumberman53]

It's just a hug it's not a big deal there;s nothing wrong with it

[jammieww2]

I don't see anything wrong in that but maybe a woman might find it different. Also depends how long he hugged for and where his hands were.

[Anonymous]

A one arm side hug around the shoulder is appropriate in my opinion.

[SpartanMEC777]

I don't see any reason why that would be wrong.

[ravedave]

I wouldn't say that's inappropriate, no

[admles]

No.

It's just a hug.

[ZombieHunter]

Yes.

[Himig_Ng_Pag-ibig]

Nope

[Dantheman101]

Nope