Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
He played me really bad, and this other girl now me and her are friends but how can we get back at him. He made me miserable he was such an ass to me. What can I do?
He's a player, how can I get back at him?
Anonymous
(30-35) 
I know how you feel girl and having been played many times before ,here are some tried and tested ways to turn the tables and have him wondering.I'm not gonna say there gonna work 100% but try them-you've got nothing to loose...(I know these may sound funny but they are are gonna make him eat his own sh*t)
1.)After not contacting you for days or a longer period of time(he is player so he probably does this all the time) when he finaly texts you (this does not apply for a phone) ask him a simple who are you? like you have deleted or forgot his number...he will feel confused and he will probably tell you who he is but after that don't respond or text him back for more than a week
2.) If he ask you how ya doing or what are you doing right now tell him you gonna have a shower in 5 minutes and ask him playfully something like this''I'm gonna have a shower do you wanna join me?'' 99% he'll say yes.Then respond with a ''Hmm to be honest you'll have to wait becouse you are the number 6 guy who wants to join me this week so grab your ticket and wait.For the other guys is free -they are far better than you but you sould be charged 20$-standard fee for a douchebag...
3.)The best thing to do is avoid acting miserable and needy and go on with your life.DO NOT SEEM BOTHERED OF HIM AT ALL.Act cool,don't respond his messages and get your self busy.Do the oppposite of what you are feeling and doing (reverse psychology works)
4.)If he seems confused and asks you any explanations respond with ''"Hey,dude you played me so I played you...now you have zero value to me so I'm kicking you to the curb... too bad you messed up...you could have had me all to yourself but we live in a different reality sorry etc.Have a nice jerky life with women of your value".He will probably try to win you back but don't fall again for his charms-you'll thank your self for not doing it.
Good luck and be strong...
Most Helpful Opinions
-
spread the word...you can make flyers and stick them everywhere and anywhere( just don't say anything that's not true ..like that he wears pink and tap dances) it will make you look desperate however tell the truth ...say he is a liar and a womanizer and post his picture . simple and effective. online blogs , posts ,polls work too. let other girls know and then laugh every time you see him or hear his name. lol
Honestly, if he didn't care about you, there's nothing you can do to get back at him. He just won't care, but If he did though, there's MANY things you can do...
Walk away like a lady. Don't be a participant in my games. Make me regret what I did by acting like I meant nothing to you and this was no sweat off of your back. When you are a participant in my games, I always win because I'm a player, it's what I do. If you like the feeling of losing, by all means bring it. - This is how he sees you. Players are good at it because they have done this several times. You are no different. I've had females try and do some pretty screwy stuff but it only proves how much they were into me and makes the girls look stupid for falling for a guy like me(the smart ones know better than this). Be a smart girl.
First of all, getting back at him does nothing. He doesn't care about you, and pretty much anything you COULD do would get you arrested (keying his car, things of that sort). Leave it in the past and move on with your life.
Second of all, do you honestly think you're the first person to try and get back at him? He's probably already had at least ten other girls trying to do the same thing as you are, and he's probably more than wise enough to see it coming from you. It's a pointless, uphill battle.
The only thing that your petty spite does for you is make you look like an immature bitch. Leave it alone.
What Girls & Guys Said
9
Opinion
19Opinion
-
I gave my answer as a comment below. Also by the way, I don't know what he did but I'm really sorry he hurt you. It sucks when people f*** with us this way, just try not to loose faith in yourself and what you have to offer. =) Whatever you had before him you still have now, and other guys will notice that.
These guys are supposedly everywhere, but I have never met one, they don't represent men in general. And I'm not saying that good guys are boring, I guarantee you I'm a good guy, and I'm fun as hell, date a lot, but always respect the people I date. -
Personally, there is nothing YOU can do to get back at him. Players have absolutely no feeling for girls they play. Since there is no feeling, they aren't able to get hurt. The only person who can hurt him, is someone he has feelings for.
Best way to get back at him, would be to forget he exists. -
slash his tires
leaving burning poop on his doorstep
tell other girls how he sucks in bed
tell other girls how he he's just a retarded player
c*** block him when he tries to hit on other girls -
just don't botherrr. like I know it seems really important to get him back, but just forget about it, don't waste your time for that jerkkkk. just go out and meet guys and show him you don't care lol
- Anonymous(36-45)
Simply I want to say, leave him, forget him, try to find a person who truly love you, there are many honest and sincere peoples there are many honest and sincere peoples
Don't. He probably has some experience at being an asshole and it's likely you can't beat him at his game.
Your best option would be to warn other girls about him.Screw his brother or father. Seriously though, just move on. Take it as a life lesson and never allow yourself to fall for the same trick twice.
-cough- Watch John Tucker must die and repeat -cough-
You get over it. Like, if he killed your father and/ or clan, then maybe that's a big deal, but this just doesn't even matter.
- Anonymous(36-45)
Forget him and forgive you're self to fall for this type of guys. don't waste you're time on him while you could invest it finding someone else who's better than him.
- Anonymous(30-35)
nothing. Move on, and next time don't fall for a player.
f*** his brother! ;) I've done it
it really gets him going,
cause even though he is a player,
most boys hate girls getting with there friends so closer the better lol
f*** his brother :) lol- Anonymous(36-45)
Hide some gay p*rn in his room and tip his parents off, they will think he is gay...
- Anonymous(36-45)
He's in a selfish phase, move on. Find a man who is mature and will be there for you. The unfortunate thing about bad boys is that they bring a ton of bad! Good luck.
- Anonymous(30-35)
theres nothing you can do. you feel for his tricks.
too bad. - Anonymous(30-35)
Do one of his ugly or average looking friends and make him catch you in the act.
just show him how perfect you r. if him still have some feeling with girls he ll want you back. but remember :NEVER go back to him!
you. got. owned. give it up.
-
simple. get with his friends
Watch John Tucker Must Die and eat Hagen Das...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions