Woman, how do i not come off as a player?

[ser123]

First off I am not a Douche Bag. I am very sweet when I need to be. People that are close to me know that. Every Single Time I go up to one of you females and start talking, they always tell me, "I bet you use that to all the girls". Or "I know you are a player". I'm not using any lines or saying anything stupid. Girls that I've dated in the pass have been consider the "hot" girls, but were players. I'm not looking for that, I've been single for about a year Am I ready to search for a real women. Any advice?

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P.S. All those girls in my past the player Girls aka "hot" girls came up too me!

[mysteri2u]

ok the girls that flock to you don't make you a player what makes you a player is talking or flirting with these girls..payy attention to your body language..make sure you are in no way flirting with ANY of these girls except the one you really like. do things with her that you don't with other girls..text her more..start conversations, hugging, act interested, smile laugh, etc but only do this with one girl...do not have more than 2 girlfriends in a year and that's about all the advice I can give ya hope this helps

[jpeterman]

When guys are really smooth it's hard to imagine they don't get with a lot of women or at least have a lot of experience with women. But, show her interest if you like the girl, or just tell her you like her. Deny being a player, if you really aren't one :)