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I used to be hot until I gained a lot of weight, now I'm just cute or pretty. I'm on vacation from being hot lol I had fun being a hot girl but was also a lot of drama. I didn't know then what I know now so sometimes I didn't know how to handle it.
Most people treat you like you are more valuable than if you are less attractive, since women are judged primarily on our looks.
Girls can be bitchy and hateful to you, but at the same time want to be around you because hanging out with a hot girl increases their status. You can attract more guys to them just by your presence, they like to enjoy the benefits of your hotness like more attention and perks. I've had girls spread nasty false rumors about me, girls that I didn't know hated me and wanted to fight me.
Guys are a mixed bag as well. You have some guys who will kiss up to you and do whatever you want them to do just to win your approval. There are some guys that will orbit around you and befriend you just for the possiblity of one day sleeping with you, but then they may become angry when they realize it won't happen. There are some guys who are actually hateful and disrespectful to you just because you're hot. Some guys act like an attractive girl is automatically evil/slutty/stupid so they treat you with malice. Some guys have a sour grapes mentality as in they are attracted to you and stare at you a lot but when they actually interact with you they are rude and cruel because they feel they can't have you anyway. I used to think there was something wrong with me because the only guys who would approach me were the gross sleazy ones who just wanted sex. I've had guys grope me and sexually harass me. It made me wonder if people thought I was slutty (I was a virgin so no lol) but I later realized that more respectful guys are less likely to get to know a hot girl because they assume you wouldn't be interested in them.
People do suck up to you so in a way you have power, but with that power comes a lot of drawbacks. Some people become more spiteful to you and perverts are more drawn to you. You get less sympathy when someone treats you in an abusive or disrespectful way because girls think you're lucky to get so much attention at all, and guys think you must be asking for it by the nature of being beautiful.
I got a lot of male attention but it was actually very very hard to find a decent boyfriend so I was single most of the time. The majority of guys just want to have sex with you for bragging rights, and the guys that are worth dating are either in relationships (with less attractive girls) or act like they are afraid of you or repulsed by you. Plus there are guys who pretend to be nice sweet guys but are actually putting on an act to get in your pants. It's hard to trust people's intentions.
All in all being hot has a lot of pros and a lot of cons. You get automatically put on a pedestal by people and society but there are also a lot of people who want to harm you.
Well, whether I'm hot or not is objective, but based on how others have reacted:
Yes, for everything you suffer, *heightened self-consciousness, jealousy or weird/bipolar reactions from folks, being attractive is STILL totally worth it. It's part of your core confidence, and makes you believe you have the right to love anyone attractive or do anything that seems out of others' reach.
It annoys me when people automatically assume I'm STUCK UP and give me a backhand compliment "oh, wow, you're really nice." I'm actually a really, really, super sensitive person that worries a great deal about how I affect others. I fantasize about helping people. But since my emotions are so strong regarding injustice, when people treat me or others badly I'm blind with rage because I'm so hurt and traumatized that people can do such inhuman, rude things. So yeah, maybe i seemed a little psycho, but life was just so intense. every. single. day. in that hell for a school.
That I can't acknowledge that other girls are beautiful *and often more so, or that it bothers me *i've never had to compete for a guy's attention, prob cause im so picky.
When guys won't take NO for an answer or accuse me of being mean just because I reject them or try to make me feel guilty just because I have a preference and I have to spend 20 min explaining why not or else I'll be labeled this and that.
When guys who are unattractive *in every sense of the word and do the aforementioned^ Or they think they'll change my mind. I know instantly whether you're a physical match, and if you're not, it's pointless. Not all girls are like that, but I'm in that 20% percentile. Please respect it and move on to easier game.
Yes, a female supervisor hired me on the spot after seeing me dressed up and hearing about my exotic background, but later changed and ended up treating me so badly I had my first panic attack on the job. So sometimes the fall is worse than the high.
I was never a mean girl or a bully. But frequently a victim of that kind of hateful behavior. I tried saying something mean to someone who was sort of a nerd *just trying to fit in with what some others said, and it backfired, since I ended up getting scolded in front of said nerd by the girls I was with. *embarrassing much?
I definitely agree with Most Helpful Girl. To be so "attractive" my love life sure sucked. I'm still saving myself for marriage, and everybody thought I had such an active sex life. At least they didn't judge me for it
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Like the above answerer, I'm taking a break from being "hot". After as many kids as I've had, I feel like I deserve it. What I can say though is that nothing beats it. Anyone complaining that it's overrated has never spent time in the body of someone less physically endowed. You get all the abusive crap, the unwanted orbiters, the people who want you for a quick fling, the people who are mean to you just for how you look maybe even more so, and no sympathy when it happens to you. What you do get is ignored. People assume that you are having less fun than a hot person and sometimes rightly so. People gloss over you for activities or invites, kind of like when you were a kid and in gym class were chosen last as a team mate on a game. What really stands out though is that people assume the opposite about you in terms of behavior. Pretty girls may have a reputation as bitchy, but overall, you're seen as a success, the good girl, nice, well-behaved, refined, mannered, proper, talented and a good leader. When you're ugly, people assume straight up you're a deviant or a criminal. You don't get the benefit of the doubt. Hotness neutralizes those negative stereotypes. You are almost always better off hot than not.
I'm not a hot girl, but I imagine it is kind of annoying. People would be constantly sucking up to you, & perverts would always come on to you. The grass is always greener on the other side until you actually move to the other side.
I mean, yeah, it seems like it would be easier to be hot girl because you could get any man you want, & people would be willing to do anything for you, but I'd rather men date me for who I am in the long run & have people help me out because of honest reasons. Yes, I have a much harder time finding someone than Heidi Klum might, but at least I know people aren't dating me just for my looks.
I don't think I'm anything that great, but I know I'm not bad looking, and yea my looks have made it easy for where my lack of confidence and shyness fail me. Guys are super nice, girls are bitches, and nice guys are too scared to hit on you so you get all the sleazy players instead. That's pretty much it in a nutshell.
Idk if I'm "hot" but I have been told that I am pretty, I don't have any body pics on my profile but I do have a great body and the thing is people always stare like I'm a piece of meat and honestly it feels degrading. So that to me is the downfall. Upside? I don't know because I have never paid attention to see if there was...
There was once a time when I was the "hot girl". Being "hot girl" was fun I'll admit but I kind of lost my self. I wasn't confident because I was still very insecure of myself and what others thought of me but I did know that for a fact I was attractive. I started to become egotistical and acted like a diva. I put other people down to raise myself up. I kind of was a mean girl. Now, I realized that in order to be confident in myself I had to stop putting myself and others down. Being hot isn't everything because one day your looks will fade. Also nobody likes a bully.
-Jade
Well I'm considered hot by boy standards, I walk into a room all boys turn, they want to dance, and most of the time something else... I've gotten jobs for being good looking and my previous boss attempted to make out with me (He was old it was scary) If I'm waiting for a bus guys will park in front of me and ask if I need a ride (ages range) I used to work at a little store and men would always offer to buy me stuff and take me out. No one really wants to get to know me and when I'm nice to guys it really turns them off because I don't have a mean girl attitude. Personally its hard being good looking and I usually don't share pictures of me because I don't want to be judged right away. So if your a mean hot girl its pretty fun but if your nice it's pretty scary, annoying, and boring.
A lot of guys don't approach us because they figure we have every other guy in the state already eating out of the palm of our hand. So... that's a downside. However, you do feel like things are a little bit easier (making friends) because you are pretty.
i get told I'm 'hot' a lot and it doesn't make a difference
i don't feel pretty
old guys looking, most guys just want sex
not at all
hmm.. never had a hard time getting a boyfriend that's about it
Men always want to know what it's like to be a hot girl. Hot girls get all the attention & no one notices the rest of us. Hot girls get everything, men suck up to them & will do anything to be with them.
most of the time I get "your so cute" ...then a few times some guys will be like "your hot" though its not that often. cute sounds adorable , I personally don't like being called "hot".
people say I'm hot, but til this day, I've NEVER had a boyfriend.
Lol my mom say it's because to school where I'm the only black one...so, personally, I think your just like anyone else.
Im a hot girl. Its okay I guess.
looks aren't everything but they do help
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