Am I helpless when it comes to attracting girls with these attributes?

[Anonymous]

I am 19 and I don't have much experience with girls at all. I am 5'9.5 which isn't tall enough if because girls like guys to be over 6ft from what I know. I am skinny and even though I have done some home workouts I still look very thin as my BMI is 18.4/5, Borderline underweight.
When I am in a nightclub one of my friends walks onto the dancefloor are practically sticking to him. He doesn't even have to do anything and he just becomes a magnet. While I am happy for him I know I am not like that and I find it frustrating.
How can I become more attractive to girls?

[Catie101]

Since you're uncomfortable with yourself I think you should change what you can change, workout if you're unhappy, dress better if it will make you feel better...

SOME home workouts isn't gunna cut it if you want to make a change and gain some weight/muscle. Hopefully your home workouts aren't just cardio, you need weight training and you need to change your diet (lots of protein and vegetables, up your caloric intake), and workout 5-6 times per week.

It sounds like your confidence is what needs the most work, your height IS NOT hindering you. My boyfriend is 5'8... thats shorter than you, my sisters boyfriend is 5'9, also shorter than you. your height isn't the issue here.

[Catie101]

Thank you for MH!

[Notedkibbles]

Bump! Gawwwd damn you look good

[CrazyCandy]

Try to gain weigjt. Not because of girls but becayse it's not healthy. Tou are not too short. You are just great for the little shorter girls. And girls propably stick into your friend because he seems confident and not too serious and reserved.

[Asker]

I want to put it on too because it is not so healthy you are right. Yeah, it's odd though as I never thought he was that conventionally attractive so it surprised me at first.

[CrazyCandy]

Confident is alwaya a good thing. Work on that :) you seem like a nice. Guy. You will no dount find a gf

[Ricosuavemente]

First off, you are not short. Yeah hitting the gym will definitely help. The women can vouch on this, personality trumps looks any day of the week. I have known guys that were overweight and ugly get beautiful woman because they had an addictive and awesome personality. Carry yourself with confidence, show no insecurities (not to be confused with vulnerability) be social and most important, have fun!

Woman will notice that you are where the party is at, and that is where they want to be.

Question: Do you approach any woman at the club or just stay in a corner as a spectator watching everyone else have fun?

[Asker]

When I am out I am not all that bothered about getting with girls, it's just noticing other people getting all this attention without trying got me thinking. I don't sit in the corner watching everyone else, I get dancing like all of them.
Yeah I will join the gym when I can afford membership.

[Ricosuavemente]

Okay cool, but you can definitely increase your chances by wearing nice trendy clothes that attract women, bulking up a bit at the gym (I workout a lot and it helps for sure), making sure your hair is always cut and looks good.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Start believing you're more attractive. Sure you can build muscle mass, but what you really need is a confidence level to approach women.

[ixi10]

By being confident and have fun! Everyone is attracted to the guy on the dance floor enjoying himself. No one is attracted to the wall flower in the corner

[Asker]

I don't sit in the corner, I dance as well and I enjoy it.

[juststrollin]

Being nice and well dressed. WELL DRESSED MEN ARE HOT! Espcially if you have a tall thin physique o. o yum.

[itsnotmeitsyou]

You'd have to show an open body language. Try to look more approachable by not sticking with a huge group of friends.

[suzannahh]

gain some weight by doing not 'some' but 'a lot' of workouts. don't end up huge, but try and gain some weight with gaining muscle tissue :)

[evellion]

Smile and give off some energy. Your height is no barrier.

[Anonymous]

I've known several smaller guys who were ladies men. Cracking jokes and making girls comfortable around you goes a long way.