It honestly does depend on how much padding there is in the bra. If it makes you look 1/2 a cup bigger, then guys usually don't mind too much. Yet if it's a full size to 2 sizes (which I haven't seen too much of), then men will obviously become disappointed. Bras, in my opinion, are meant to enhance and support, not to transform and change the way breasts look. I hope this helps and good luck!
Lol, I've actually noticed several push-up bra commercials and they make me laugh; and while they are entertaining, I always think "THAT'S FALSE ADVERTISING!" If you think about it, the premise is kinda shallow, any woman who wears one would seem to have some kind of self-image issue with their breasts, For me, breast size is not a big deal, and I wouldn't hold it against a girl I like who wears them, I'll just say that they aren't necessary. But if you like the way you look with one, then by all means wear them, you likely won't get any protests from guys, lol.
P.S. I would always put perkiness before size anyways, ( . Y . )
I know this might seem like a big issue, for many guys it is. I am here to tell you though that I’m not one of those guys. Honestly I feel if she can accept me for the way I am built (or lack thereof) than I can accept her for the way she is. Very VERY rarely have I ever been disappointed in the way my partner looks as they undress, and even if she isn’t perfect, really I would never say anything about it, especially if she is wanting to be intimate with me. It is my goal to make her feel as sexy and desirable and as comfortable as she can be. Really I feel it’s more important to do this outside of the bedroom as well, we all want to feel good about ourselves, and honestly aren’t there enough pressures in the media and on TV making us all feel inadequate? I would like to believe there are more than a few other guys besides me that feel this way. I hope this helps some.
Reminds me of a great joke- "Do you know why they call them Wonder Bras? Because when you take them off you wonder where their t*ts went."
Seriously though, it is a bit of false advertising (I mean how would girls like it guys walked around with a roll of quarters in their pocket) but at the same time, if a guy is only interested in you for your breasts, who cares what he thinks anyway.
I think they are a great accesory for any girl. I had a Girlfriend who loved to pull that out every now and then and it was great. The key being "now and then" if it is every day it is like saying a word 100 times in a row after a while it loses it's meaning and just sounds weird.
If the dress works or would be amped by that, great.
If not then just roll normal.
Don't forget to that going bra less can be as sexy if not more sexy for many guys especially if they don't realize it until they put their hand on your back and don't feel a strap. That can trump a heaving chest and it's less public (still noticeable but more private).
I can't speak for all guys but I find whatever makes my girl happy is fine by me. You can easily tell when someone isn't comfortable due to how their clothing is. When my girlfriend feels comfortable, so do I.
I'm not a boob guy so I'll state that it doesn't matter. Big boobs, flat chest, doesn't matter, I've been with them all, doesn't concern me. I'm the type of guy that I'll find something that'll interest me than concerning myself with certain body parts. They way you look at me, the way you smile at me, the way you hug me can be a hundred times more critical than your breast size for example. Attitude above all else is what makes a girl very sexy to me.
LMAO. I don't understand how any guy could be disappointed about that. Who cares about the actual freakin size. When the bra comes off... you are seeing the breasts. What is disappointing about that at all?
Push up bras under the right dress, low cut, make for a very hot view of her boobs. I've seen enough boobs in and out of a bra to no longer be fooled/disappointed when it finally comes off her. I've also seen enough boobs in and out of bras to know that for women who have had at least two kids their boobs may have lost their form out of a bra. The have become droopy. They only look so sweet inside of a bra. So again I'm too surprised in that situation.
It depends on the occasion I think. All the time might be a bit much. I think I mght be a bit disappointed bt at the end of the day f it's a girli care about then it wouldn't matter to me. I mean would you feel a bit disappointed if guys started stuffing thierry crotch only to find out that they have a small package? I have guess how big a girls bra size is and I usually get them wrong. My question to you is, is it better to guess bigger or smaller?
Push up bras/ padded bras p*ss me off. They are nothing more than a lie just like make up. (I think most guys like make up though) Anything that alters a person's appearance does nothing but prove that person has low self esteam, which is not attractive. And yes, it is very disappointing to find out that a girl's boobs seemed to be perky and large turn out to be saggy or smaller. (the smaller doesn't matter as much as saggy)
Guys like boobs. Period. I'd think them not being as perky would be the only letdown to me, the size part of it wouldn't bother me. Either way you look at it unless your sporting like DD's then all of a sudden basically nothing I don't see any guys being disappointed, they still get to have fun!
we generally expect that the boobs will not look anything like they do in a bra, but yes, we are somewhat disappointed every time, as if one time they will still be perky and big.
I have 3 girl housemates all of which have very small breasts (almost non-existent) and sometimes they look like they have breasts and I know it is literally all bra. there is like nothing under there. they will wear B cup bras under their clothes that are literally hollow. when I see them in a tight tanks without a bra they are absolutely flat. if I was a guy who didn't know this I would likely be quite disappointed when I had sex with them.
It's a time-waster for me. I mean, I spent so much time in the game, and when finally I take off her bra, I see her t*ts are not what I expected. Boobs are not the most important part of a girl, but they are still important. Anyway, I've learned to spot, by trial and error, what's real and what's fake (both push-up bras and boobs jobs).
I think push ups are great. They don't really make your boobs themselves look bigger, but they increase your cleavage and make you look sexier. Padded bras are extremely fake and I judge any girl who I know wears padded bras or stuffs her bras.
when I was a kid I used to wear push up bras untill I was 15 when I actually had enough boobs...so now I don't wear them because its pointless and if I do id look like a pornstar!
but if the gurl doesn't have that much of boobs and she'd feel better about herself ones she wears a push up bra then yeah why not. But I personally don't recommand it often..only those hot night out.. Yes otherwise.. keep it simple!
am 24 and my boobs are not hard ,firm and perky as they used to be when I was 20 years old!
although I still wear the same size! which is big...i hate the fact that re becmong siggier by the minute or even when I lose a little weight! they become saggier and saggier!
its annoying.. its like your nose is getting longer or your eye lashes are getting shorter by time!lol they should remain Nice and Perky for the rest of ourlives Ha ***sigh***
In my experience guys like them, and sometimes even assume all girls are wearing them. I mean, I wouldn't wear a bra that made my boobs look like DDs if I was really just an A, but I don't even know what kind of bra can do that. In pushup bras my boobs look slightly better than they do without, but it doesn't make such a huge difference that I would forgo wearing it.