How to stress less about this?

[Anonymous]

How to stress less about this? I've got a personal trainer appointment-my first one and he's a male and I just feel nervous he's either going to hit on me, or not understand me or it's just going to be awkward in general.

[BlckDragon]

You can't stress a situation that you know nothing about. Because you don't know if he's gay, married, committed or he's just doing his job and sees you just as another client. Stress later after you meet him. Being nervous is just part of trying new things in life. Besides you never know, you might be the one developing a crush on him, just saying.

[WestcoastBratt]

He won't hit on you (unless your drop dead gorgeous) he'll probably sit down with you and talk with you about your fitness goals and what you are trying to accomplish. Don't be Stressed over it, just go in there an have fun, it's not about how much you lift, it's about feeling the contraction in your muscles

[Asker]

Turns out he was actually flirting with me haha. I must be drop dead gorgeous ;)

[WestcoastBratt]

Haha I guess, or maybe a just had a flirty personality with girls, I know I'm that way

[Asker]

Oh true.. No doubt!

[GymBumGuy]

so why not request a female one?

[Anonymous]

It's only awkward, if you make it awkward