Do you think women these days are always stressed out and less happy than women in the past?

[Anonymous]

[hi_it_is_me123]

Funny how cuntservative boys are so mad at women and so gaslight them and blame them in the commentsection. These boys want women to be like 1950's aka to be beta cuck slaves. Of course women seem more happy in 1950s if they dont even have choice to show their discomfort such as rape in marriage, abuse, cheating etc. They seem happy because they probably have Stockholm syndrom and again have no right to show their discomfort. This is very common with opressed women in third world countries. If your wife rape you with strap-on-dildo, cheat on you, dont allow you to divorce, spank your little ass, when you dont obey but complain, would you dare to express your discomfort? It should be allowed to treat these cuntservative boys like the 1950 housewifes so they have symphaty
And again idiots blame every shit on feminism. Feminism alone can't change the whole society. Feminists are only small minority. These manchild can't even take responsibilities and blame their shitty life on feminism and women. It is always the women's/feminists fault but never their fault. (I dont deny that feminism has problems but it definetely did not cause your personal problems and so grow tf up)

[Asker]

I'm not blaming anyone for anything. In fact I have no issues to blame on women.
I'm only worried about women these days. I'm only talking about what I see. So far it's been mostly working women who tend be moody, stressed, freak out easily and complain all the time.
My mom and grandma seem to be happy with their uncomplicated housewife life. It makes their day when they cook something everybody likes and compliment, this is only one example.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Oh i am sorry then. Thank you for your concern. I think it depends on the country. In welfar states you have it very good. The government really helps you

[Asker]

I lived in both, welfare and no welfare states. Didn't actually notice the difference.
Or maybe I noticed that women in welfare states were constantly demanding more benefits and never satisfied.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Ok wtf. I did not see that but ok with your personal experience you can't generalize women, otherwise you sound like an incel. Whatever have a good day

[Asker]

I'm not generalising. I actually started my question with "Do you think.."

[hi_it_is_me123]

"My mom and grandma seem to be happy with their uncomplicated housewife life. It makes their day when they cook something everybody likes and compliment, this is only one example." I am experiencing the opposite. I see how married housewifes complain about husbands or their life and so they gossib a lot lool.

[hi_it_is_me123]

I dont understand why tf they are married and be a housewife. Nobody force them to be lke this. Working women who complain about working, can stop working and be a housewife. Nobody force them to work

[Asker]

And countless female friends (working women) gossib with me a lot and complain about their miserable life.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Again this is personal. Nothing to do with working then. They will continue to complain it when they become housewifes.

[jgibsonian1986]

You might be interested to look into how pseudoeateogens affect men and women in the modern world.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Dm me.

[hi_it_is_me123]

It sounds interesting

[jgibsonian1986]

Follow me back so I can lol

[Cathy7734]

I agree with you 100%! Most people are unhappy today despite all the advantages of today. PragerU made a video about this.
Why Are so Many Young People Unhappy?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/6YP1l39PjO8

[Asker]

People have no cause or have one that goes against their nature.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. Women used to have a less stressful life as home makers or working but not being relied on to pay significant bills. These days women are relied upon to pay significant bills. Women in general are not very capable at handling ongoing high stress WITHOUT it interfering in their personal demeanor and home life. They can't leave work at work like men are much better able to do that. This is why most women have anxiety and depression problems. As a well off man I've dated women who have serious anxiety and depression issues trying to work and go to school and get ahead. The second i have them quit all that to live a quiet life of a home maker all their issues disappear overnight basically.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely! I remember the past and how my mother and aunts were quite happy… they didn’t seem to care about what feminists think is important today. They had a great family and a great life. Lots of fun times, nice family vacations, parties, and they raised their families not some daycare.

My wife has had a great life as well. She raised our three children, has a great family around her and hasn’t had to work since 1987. Women today have been told a bunch of horror stories about women in those time but all was more than well. You can still catch a glimpse of their lives in old movies which show some of how it was.

[Asker]

Now feminists will assassinate you bro! Hahahaha

[Opinion Owner]

That’s why I’m anonymous 😀

[MzAsh]

They shouldn’t be. The world is our oyster. Women have more options and opportunities than ever.
I am loving it!

[HiveBee]

Exactly what I would think. At least in first world countries, women are free.

Should have been free since the US started but it is what it is.

[HOAAH]

Possibly because we are expected to bring money to the relationship and raise good kids and be good wives and help clean and cook as well.
Back then we were not expected to bring money to the relationship, as well as do other stuff that was deemed fitting only for a man (like fix the house and fix the cars when they were broken).

[Nazgol]

Exactly.

[Hentaibby]

What I was about to say , women are the new men. Soon they will be obsolete

[Asker]

Men aren't expecting women to go out and bring money. Most women wanna have a job and be "independent" so that they don't get shamed bey feminists for being that typical housewives.

[Unbeatable]

@Hentaibby read my take "Boy is the new girl"

[Unbeatable]

Men dont care about females money.

[Nazgol]

@ asker no, actually a lot of men follow and agree this norm as well and do not mind a woman working. They know it's the new normal and they are ok with it

[Asker]

@Nazgol you’re right. But if it’s up to those men and if the economical situation wasn’t that hard. Most of men would rather having a typical happy family with defined roles. A housewife, kids and a husband going out to work to provide to the family.
And women would love it too as long as no one’s shaming them for being a housewife.

[Unbeatable]

Most people are herd animals herd animals are ok being fenced in and abused

[Nazgol]

Yeah well blame it on feminism. That's the reason why it's like that 🤷‍♀️

[Unbeatable]

Yeah you are a feminist if you aren't antifeminist tho. Many girls say "im not a feminist" but they really are cause they dont oppose feminism

[Nazgol]

@Unbeatable no, im not a feminist. how do you claim to know what I am if you never heard me say it? 🤨 lol

[Unbeatable]

@Nazgol are you a feminist

[Unbeatable]

Are you an antifeminist

[Nazgol]

@Unbeatable yes, anti

[neeeeeeeko]

Nah I think people are just getting more in tune with their emotions and stress is a part of that. Back then getting stressed really held you back, even as a woman. You got three babies crying one kid is sick with God knows what and you have to make dinner, quiet the kids and clean the house before your husband gets home or he might beat you or something. There's no time to be stressed out. Nowadays there's plenty of support systems and healthy ways to let your stress out rather than just holding it all inside.

[AphroditesSword]

I think most people these days are more unhappy and stressed out than in the past.
Materialism, overconsumption, urbanization and alienation from each other and nature contribute to this phenomenon. Also unrealistic beauty standards that are propagated by social media and the film industry can be extremely stressful for women

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Strictly depends on the individual and their circumstances.

For those married or in romantic relationships, it will be more stressful because you are dealing with another person and perhaps kids, and their needs and desires which creates expectations and stress.

Moreover, women in the past generally though were treated like trash in America, i. e no voting rights, expected to be stuck at home all day cooking and cleaning and men physically abused women a lot more making them miserable and stuck in a hell hole of a marriage.

[DianaWest]

oh yes. back in the middle ages it was fashionable and trendy to be a little chubby. nowadays most men think any woman that has more than 2 extra pounds on her is a hideous monster who has "let herself go." i know right, had triplets 2 weeks ago but why can't i see your abs?

[DianaWest]

one more thing i'd like to add: some men expect women to cook, clean, take care of the kids full time, do laundry, and go to work 8 hours a day while bringing home the same or higher salary than him. while prince charming gets to sit on the cushy sofa with his feet on the table watching his football game to destress after a long day at "work," his hand up his ass, and ordering Cinderella around. right, some women are now doing what men do as well and more. i better start making some holes in the wall to give hubby some manly work to do around the house. oops baby, the washing machine fell down the stairs by accident. guess you gotta fix it. oh dear, the neighbour's kids broke all of the kitchen windows while playing basketball. how awful. but hubby will get off his ass and do the manly work, while cinderella cooks and cleans and works 8 hours a day and takes care of the kids. at least the chores are a little more even now. by the way, not saying all guys are like this, just most.

[Asker]

I see how stressed out you are :) .. and it effects your judgment and reasoning.

[DianaWest]

no. it's quite logical actually. would you divide household responsibilities with your wife or girlfriend? i said some men, not all, but ask your fellow buddies what they think and you'd be surprised by what they tell you.

[J2ohhhhh]

Good old medieval times😂

[KrakenAttackin]

It's a fact that women are more miserable than at anytime in recorded history. Ladies, you want to "have it all", well, you got it. Even with all of the forced extraction of wealth and labor from men, women are still miserable.

All of this misery is a direct result of "Feminism" and "equality". Congratulations ladies, you won.

[Dchrls78104]

Winning isn't everything.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Dchrls78104 They wanted it, they got it. Now they believe it's men's fault they are miserable.

[Dchrls78104]

@KrakenAttackin my point exactly.

[nella965]

So by your answer , you are basically admitting that women were not treated equally back then.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And what makes you so sure feminism actually won? Because there are a lot of other possible things that actually change our society today. And yes that includes men being oppressed in the past as well

[Seinna]

A small % of women wanted it... most were forced into it. A woman can't be a "woman" in this day and age because that requires a "man". Women don't chose career, they often have no choice if they are responsible and want to have a family in the future. Those who brought about that change were not women at all.. yes there were some feminists at the front of that movement but it was done by corporations to have more cheaper labour. It's sad that so few people realise that.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Seinna I see, so women are "victims".

[KrakenAttackin]

@nella965 "Back than", you mean when women were actually happy?

[nella965]

@KrakenAttackin. Everyone was happier back then including men. Because cost of living was lower. Nowadays a family cannot survive only on dads income.

Sorry if this hurts your feelings but it’s the truth.

Women enjoy independence too. This is why so many women are divorcing shitty husbands.

[KrakenAttackin]

@nella965 That's bullshit. The average home has more than doubled in square footage, people have much more "stuff", all in effort to love these Pinterest/Facebook/IG lives. There are plenty of families that raise a family on one income.

[KrakenAttackin]

@nella965 Why did these foul women marry "shitty husbands" in the first place?

[nella965]

@KrakenAttackin. Do you realize many women were unhappy in a lot of marriages during the 1990s and prior? Many of them never had “social media” to vent on. But housewife dissatisfaction was very common. Many of these women couldn’t divorce their husbands because they had no education or career skills.

Nowadays women can do watever they want. They can divorce shitty men. Women are happier having this freedom. Then now men find out that they can’t abuse their wives like the 70s-90s so the misogynists are finally complaining today about having to please their wives

Yea , you better get your act together and start pleasing women. Cuz we can divorce you ANY TIME we want

[Slee93]

Uhm well... my grandma cooked, did the garden and sewed clothes... but it was my grandfather who was responsible to bring he food at home. I work an average of 11-12 hours a day and i also have to cook and clean. Have no time to make myself pretty or find myself a boyfriend, and have to budget my money myself. I guess my answer is yes?

[MannMitAntworten]

Fewer men and women are finding one another thus both are left to their own devices. Which, as each become used to doing things on their own, self-sufficient out of necessity, neither men or women seem to be in a rush or encouraged find one another. Especially since there is this notion that marriage equates to some sort of mythical 1950’s lifestyle that only truly existed on television shows.

[Usernamej58]

Feminists think it better to be a slave to your company that will replace you in a second rather than to your family doing things that are worthwhile for people you love.

[blank_expression]

It doesn’t take much to set one off, such as a hello. They are unraveling and seem borderline psycho anymore. Women alcoholism is through the roof and medications are a common as popcorn. I see some coworker women out slamming down at least a bottle of wine a night. How the hell can they do that long term. Some of my ex-s that are working and drinking continuously look exhausted, wrinkled and used up. Stressed you say? I think many are about to go tilt. Well, at least they don’t need a man.

[TheFlak38]

pharmacies are making a fortune thanks to women buying anti-depressants. GAG itself is a perfect example. Click on your news feed now and chances are you'll find another question posted by a pink user telling us how horrible her life is. And it's all happening in a system that is dedicated to serve their vagina. They are never happy.

[AFellowWeeb]

Because of the increase on female promiscuity. Women need stability in their lives as much as men need sex, but since women these days give sex so easely, why would a man say no? And afterwards just moving on with his life.

Side note: love the fact that i couldnt even see the replies of 3 in a row pink accounts, allways a good sign that im on the right place to comment.

[jgibsonian1986]

Yes!

There is a large causation connection between ingested pseudoestrogens and the hormonal changes in modern women.

There is a scientific reason why women are so high strung these days. Everyone's sex hormones are unbalanced!

[Anonymous]

Here we go. I don't even need to look down at the comments section of the blues. I know they'll blame the F word. It's their favorite thing to do.

I think women are overall less happy the way they spend their time on social media and take it too seriously.

[suisuiola]

Yeah, from taking men’s sexist bs like this. Some men now expect women to not only cook and clean but make money too while they do Lord knows what.

[nella965]

No I think women were just as miserable back then. You just never got to hear about it due to lack of social media and women’s voices back then

[nella965]

Life was also easier back then. Today our lives are harder. Cost of living is also higher nowadays

[IDontBelieveIt]

@nella965 agreed and nicer

[nella965]

@IDontBelieveIt people were nicer back then because they were happy. Nowadays survival is much more difficult

[Tiptoetamm]

I know I am I've changed some things told me man if he doesn't strengthen up I'm fine for good and still no change so we are done single after 11 years. Feeling less stressed about thing thankfully

[newfreshstart]

sorry

[Tiptoetamm]

Don't be it's his fucking fault

[Anonymous]

Women? I’d include men in that as well as kids. Everyone is more stressed out in general!

[Asker]

When women are stressed out, the whole society will get stressed out and messed up. Unlike women, men can suppress and contain their stress from propagating to others.

[Opinion Owner]

This really isn’t about gender in the slightest. Both men and women fail to deal with stress in a way that benefits others, and both men and women are able to protect others from it. Your life experiences seem to be very sheltered to have such a bias.

[Asker]

I actually lived and worked in 3 continents over the last 15 years, not sure if this is a sheltered experience. I'm only talking about what I see. So far it's been mostly working women who tend be moody, stressed, freak out easily and complain all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s definitely not my experience. I’m a professional and in the mostly female environment I work in many just ‘keep calm and carry on’. I see people amaze me every day doing that and saving peoples lives. Maybe they just have more of an appreciation of life because they see it at the end, start, worst and best.

[Opinion Owner]

Also I should add, women tend to vent more at the time so it’s out and felt with. Men that try to suppress it end up letting it out in far worse ways…fights at football matches etc springs to mind. Becoming alcohol dependent, taking up gambling habits etc. Venting would clearly be far more productive in the long run.

[Opinion Owner]

*dealt with

[Anonymous]

I think most humans regardless of their gender are stressed out these days But men always need to associate everything with gender. Smh

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, probably! I don't understand why women today are so uptight! They've got half the money and ALL the pussy!!

[NightHawk99]

Nope! Women are happier these days. In fact, a lot of their problems these days are caused by the women themselves.

[Asker]

Well, as long as it’s not caused by men.