For me it's not the size of the girl that actually matters. Sure I've posted on this site my feelings toward petite girls, but those discussions weren't focused on what really grabs my eye: shape.
I'm 5'7" and 155lbs. Not the biggest guy in the lot. But' I've dated plenty of girls that weigh more than me and they all had one thing in common. A nice shape. So long as they are proportioned and have that nice curve from bust to waist to hips, I'm not concerned about height or weight.
You make no mention of your height but you do say that you sort of have an hourglass shape. And without seeing a picture of you I can't say this for sure, but I'm not certain overweight would define you, a word the anonymous user prior to my post used. Overweight is measured person from from. Being 190lbs does NOT necessarily mean you are overweight, and especially if you have an hourglass shape. Being 190lbs and shaped likely an apple would be though. Science and doctors are just starting to understand that people with certain body shapes that don't fall into the norm, don't always have health or weight problems. This poster, comparing you to overweight girls, does so based strictly on your weight which is just as faulty to say BMI (Body Mass Index) is the holy grail of determining ideal body weight.
Last thing I'd like to note. Confidence is sexy. Pretty girls with zero confidence will attract a lot of men, but they won't keep them. Average girls with a lot of confidence will attract as many or more, but WILL keep them (unless of course the guy is threatened by that, but that's a whole different conversation). If you walk and talk like you believe in yourself, there will be guys that won't want to just date you.they'll NEED to date you. You're still very young and at your age guys are still formulating ideas in their mind about what makes a woman sexy. At that age physical appearance, unfortunately, still weighs heavier on the mind that personality. Your time will come.
To some people, yeah, others probably not. There's a lot of anti-bigger-girl sentiment out there, at least in the United States, which is ironic because I think the statistic was that 1/3 or 1/4 Americans is overweight.
But, despite this, I still see them getting dates and falling in love, so don't ever think you're undateable.
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