13 Awesome and Unconventional Bachelor/Bachelorette Party Ideas

Strippers do nothing for me. I have to have an emotional attachment to someone to be attracted to them. If I did see a male stripper, I would wonder what his hopes and dreams were before he decided to sell himself. Also I love the idea of black dress bachelorette party or black suit bachelor party. Way classier than wearing pink boas and plastic tiaras.

A spa day

Pick up coffee at a cute coffee house and spend the day shopping

A mini vacation

Paintball

Bungee jumping or skydiving

Go to a festival

Makeovers by a professional stylist, you don't have to cut or dye your hair. You could get facials, a head massage, or get your makeup professionally done.

Bar hopping

Weekend at the beach

Murder mystery dinner show

Laser tag

A fencing class...but with light sabers

Take a whiskey or distillery tour

Have a treat yo' self day


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What Guys Said 11

  • 1mo

    "Strippers do nothing for me. I have to have an emotional attachment to someone to be attracted to them."

    You lost me here. Come on Bachelor Party without strippers wtf.

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  • 1mo

    hell yes, this is so much better than strippers in my opinion, this is more my style too. Oh I would also add Cosplay at comiccon but I agree with everything especialy laser tag lol.

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  • 1mo

    There's no such thing as a happy bachelorette because women like you said need relationships and emotional connections to be fulfilled or happy. Then again there is no such thing as a unhappy bachelor because us men are wired differently.

    Give a single/bachelor man a large supply of beautiful women to have sex with as much as he pleases is enough to be fulfilled more than an average chump stuck in a marriage or long term relationship running the risk of losing half his resources if she decides to turn cold or cheat.

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  • 1mo

    Had a talk with a buddy of mine.

    We're going hunting for our bachelor parties

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  • 1mo

    Where are the strippers

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  • 1mo

    most strippers, are either in school, or they have day jobs. they make money that way, to pay off student loans

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  • 1mo

    Rock climbing
    diving
    sking
    When you and many other girls say emotional connection is it more a case of because he's stronger i need to know enough to be able to trust him?
    I don't believe our minds are actually that different so i'm wondering if some of its just definitions?

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  • 1mo

    I think I'll stick to strippers.

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  • 1mo

    Honeslty I really appreciated this. I don't get the strippers before the wedding. Feels wrong to me

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    • 1mo

      The idea is that it's one last fling before they get married and are officially off the market. Personally I think if a person wants one last fling, they should be single.

    • 1mo

      I kneo what culture seems it to be. I'm saying I agree it's you

  • 1mo

    Sailing to the Channel Islands.

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  • 1mo

    I chose mini vacation - Any batchelor party I have been on involved a break away to city at least a few hours away by plane for a long weekend and then closer to the day a meal with a few drinks afterwards - Like you, we had no interest in strippers or gimmicks.

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What Girls Said 10

  • 1mo

    Murder mystery dinner party for me!
    Dress up > mandatory!

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  • 1mo

    These are some really awesome ideas! Nice take

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  • 1d

    ─▒Good post

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  • 1mo

    Great ideas but I still want Vegas and strippers and poker.

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  • 1mo

    All of these sound awesome!! Although I still wanna go see strippers, just for the experience XD

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  • 1mo

    Finally someone who feels the same as me about strippers... Love these ideas!

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  • 1mo

    Some of those sound SUPER fun!!! Especially the spa day and mini vacation and weekend at the beach. Put em all together and it sounds like heaven!

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  • 1mo

    I also don't think strippers are "unconventional" if it's expected everyone should do it :P
    My mum got a party bus and it took us to a restaurant, and then to this burlesque bar where we were out the back with a dance who was kind of giving a lesson on a few sensual bedroom moves (the slow taking off the glove). And then us underage kiddos went home and they all went and did other things.

    I like the idea of a make over and facials and stuff, and paintball. And going shopping together. Could make a weekend of it.

    Get facials and make overs Saturday Morning, Go shopping Saturday day/afternoon. Stay at a hotel Saturday night in a city somewhere, perhaps all go out to dinner in a nice black dress each. Sunday go paintballing.

    Although the downside of paintballing is you don't want to do it too close to the actual day - bruises/pain etc. But it'd be fun.

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    • 1mo

      That's true about the paintball. One group of bridesmaids said they got cheap dresses from a thrift store and did paintball. Getting hit with a paintball would hurt way in a dress. Making a weekend out it, sounds like a super fun girls weekend idea.

    • 1mo

      That'd be cool, could make the bride wear a really cheap wedding dress or something. And go crazy.

  • 1mo

    I know what you mean. I also need an emotional attachment, and those thoughts would cross my mind too. These ideas were all really cool, I definitely want to keep these in mind for the future. The all wearing black thing would be awesome.

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  • 1mo

    ;-; *cries at the awesomeness of it all!*

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