Not sure what to do. My husband touches me when I'm sleeping. I told him if he did it again I would leave him. He says he can't control it. He did it again and he is now staying at a friends while I think about what to do. He is going to see a therapist but I told him to do that the last time and he said no. Should I stay or should I go?
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What he's been doing is is clearly disrespectful (as darkangel has said), and also, in my experience, bizarre. On the other hand, I have to give him points for giving you the room you need by staying at a friends house, and for volunteering himself for treatment. In this, he seems to be admitting the error of his ways. If I were you, I'd want to save my marriage (assuming all other aspects are going well), and I'd give him the opportunity to amend his behavior, if at all possible. You might make it clear to him, that if this is to ever happen again you will leave him at once. You might also find a therapist yourself, to inquire into the nature of his problem, and gain advice as to it's treatability. It would seem like you should both be involved in the therapy sessions. All the best.0