(first of all, I'm actually 28 years old). my wife went to visit her parents and left me at home with my 3 year old son. I hired a babysitter (Mindy) since I was finishing up a project for work. after work, I made sure my son was safe, well fed, and asleep. the babysitter showed me that he was sound asleep. we then talked and watched Netflix together. I offered her some champagne and we drank together. then we had sex in the family room while my son slept.
what do I do? should I just hide this? a divorce may hurt my son. or is firing Mindy a good idea and leaving this behind?
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a typical porno scene. Kid sound asleep and dad is fucking the hot young babysitter. FIRE MINDY! She's a home wrecker and should've known better than to drink to excess while on the job! YOU! Should know better than to intoxicate her and take advantage of her while she's under the influence. You need to TEL YOUR WIFE! She has the right to know about your infidelity and you better pray she takes you back. You don't deserve her because you fucked up. Clearly she isn't enough for you so you decided to have more. That poor child. You better shape up! PRONTO!4
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Most Helpful Guy
what should you do? tell your wife and yes firing the babysitter will need to happen. your wife shouldn't have to see her and be reminded of your infidelity and will not trust you to be around her... that is if your wife decides to stay with you0