My husband and I had been married for about 6 months now. We are having sex almost everyday except when I'm on my period. He would come home from work, have dinner with me, watch a movie then shower and its sex. There are times I wonder if he only need me for sex. Don't get me wrong I love and enjoy having sex with him and we do other things than having sex. However I feel that him having sex with me everyday is just because he want sex not me. Is having sex everyday even healthy for my marriage?
Most Helpful Guy
Does he need a release? Yes, every man does. Sexually frustrated men often turn violent. That is why porn is widespread. BUT that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. The fact he's ok with you not wanting any and can wait for you is proof enough. Not to mention we can get release in 5 mins and not care about the girl. He doesn't sound like doing that. We don't have many ways to show love so this way he both tells you he loves you and makes sure both of you are happy, which is the whole point of making love - both people feel pleasure from being together. Please don't think that we don't connect sex to love. We do. I'd be more worried if he no longer wants it for long periods of time. For more questions about how we think I recommend you watch Mark Gungor's seminar. It is hilarious and pretty acurate.2
Most Helpful Girl
Do you want to have sex everyday? Do you both enjoy sex every day? Do you both go "Oh man, I can't wait to have sex with my spouse!"
If you answered yes to all of these questions, then every day sex is right for you!
It seems like he just has a high libido and he's really into you. A man doesn't need you to have an orgasm, he's (presumably) got at least one hand and a good imagination. If you are considering slowing down on the amount of sex you have, talk to him about it and make the times that you do have sex? Make those times earth shatteringly fantastic. Instead of seven quickies, pair down to three full length fucking extravaganzas!
Were you two having sex before you got married? Or did you wait?0