I been with my boyfriend for close to 2 years now. I know that might not seem like a long time, but I just can't help seeing people the same age as me getting married. We are not in a financial position to get married now, he has to save more money and I have to find a full-time job. Also his sister is also living with a boyfriend (they bought a house together) and still they haven't tied he knots. I know I shouldn't look at other people I just can't help wondering if maybe he's using me or he doesn't really have something like marriage in mind (even though he said it many times before that he does) or he just wants someone for the sake of having someone and not being lonely?
Most Helpful Guy
You are just cautious and unhappy and kind of jealous about others. That is normal. Ignore them and find happiness in what you have in your life. He loves you and will pop the question when things are ready.1
Most Helpful Girl
You know honestly?
If he really wanted to marry you, he would sit you down, and say, look hon, I would like to marry you at some point but it's not realistic from a financial perspective etc. Why would I not want to marry you? I love you and what would make me happier than marrying the girl I like.
But if his approach is more like giving excuses or being rude about it... then I'm sorry. I don't think he wants to marry you.
Now this is a pretty serious thing. Don't take my word or anyone else's for it. Really, truly think about a lot of different things when you make a decision on whether he does or doesn't.