I never had to worry about it in high school because I'm really shy and guys never tried anything other than kissing, but now that I'm in college, I realized eventually I'll have to tell a guy he's not getting far. The thing I don't know is how and when do I tell him? I wouldn't want to wait until he tries something, so how would I bring it up and what would I say?
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I think it's reasonable to bring it up anytime...but it might feel more natural to discuss right after a make out session or something like that.
Just be confident in your reasons for it, and remember that honesty is always the best policy. The rest will take care of itself.3