So my boyfriend/fiance is turning 23 next week. He says it is not a special day or anything. But I'm still planning on things to make it special. I...
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So. his bday is tomw.Iv tried planning for a spa. I figured since he is stressed w/work, he could use a full body massage, and a nice dinner, w/assorted cakes. Then I thought if we don't have enough time for that I can reserve dinner at the outdoor rest.
This morning I asked him what time he will be home tomw (So I can plan).He said 8pm bcuz he has things to do.I was like, its your bday.Then he got annoyed and said, he's been telling me he doesn't want to do anything for his bday.He doesn't understand why
Im even planning things when he's been telling me he doesn't want anything.or to do anything.I was hurt. because Iv been seriously stressing about this,so I can make it special.Then he started going off on its a weekday anyway, and he has things to do.
I started crying, I don't knw why. I felt so stupid. and so. I don't even know what I was feeling. But it wasnt good. I still feel terrible, and I still want to plan a dinner at least after 8 when he is done. But I feel like such a fool.
I don't know what to do anymore. And I feel so sad.
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I'm more of a beach than a boat person, so I'd be cool with the restaurant by the beach. But they're both good idea's. And I'm sure he's going to notice how good of a job you do/did/whatever, you know what I mean. And I'm a person who likes to go to events for my birthday or sometime after even, like concerts and shows, things like that. Maybe you could look into something like that.