Hello babez, it's been some time. I haven't written a MyTake because I've been quite busy with my life. Today I am going to present 5 main things confident people never do and a few advice.
1. Compare themselves to others
Comparing yourself to others is a surefire way to make you unhappy. Life is not a competition. You don’t have to be the smartest, richest, prettiest, or most interesting person you know to be happy. Live life at your own pace instead of trying to catch up or be ahead of others.
2. Avoid (Calculated) Risks
In life, there are many uncertainties and risks. So far, we have ignored them all, but you will have to face them. In our various discussions of discounted present value, we pretended that you knew your future income—and your future tastes—with certainty. In real life, we must decide how much to save without knowing for sure what our future income will be.
3. Try To Please Everyone
Lean too much on other people’s approval and it becomes a bed of thorns.
In fact, more than a problem this is a disease. Why?
Because they want everyone to like them. To love them.
They dread disapproval. Pleasing everyone seems to be the answer, the safe way to inoculate yourself against conflict and confrontation in relationships, whether family, friends, or work.
So you fail to speak up, fail to say what’s on your mind, fail to allow yourself to be the real you.
4. Avoid Rejection
One of the reasons shy guys have almost no success with women is because they fear rejection. The woman usually has to make all the moves and give a lot of obvious signals she is interested. Otherwise the shy guy is terrified of getting turned down, or ignored, or being laughed at, or made to look like a loser. THAT'S WRONG!
5. Give Away Power
Some people see themselves in the drivers seat of their lives and others feel they are in the passenger seat. Stop being frustrated with how your life is going and take your personal power back.
No matter why you may think you are in the passenger seat you can take back your personal power. The first step is recognizing where you are giving it away.
Thanks everyone for reading this. Stay cute and beautiful!!! <3 <3