I'm screwed in the head should I get implants?

Question

I have very small b cups, I can put them in an a" cup

I walk around school every day and see every girl about 1 in 25 may have the size I have. It is on my chest every man and woman judges my value on it every day. I can’t hide it. I can’t take away the pain and sadness I feel every day because of it. Inferior. Out of the bell curve, like an animal who isn't meant to reproduce. 

I refuse to have a boyfriend, because I can't trust them I’ve had too many bad comments, opinions and even a boyfriend who I dated for years said they were too small years into the relationship. Craving sex and male affection is like a curse of god. 

I feel punished, deprived of happiness, and overwhelmed with anger. I have $20000 dollars and im thinking implants, I know men dont like them but this is really killing me. Are they still horrible if im this sad, im 27 I've spent over ten years crying over it.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

Hell no! I worked in the p*rn industry for a while as a magazine editor and video producer. I have seen a lot of implants. I have only seen one set of implants that looked good (Brooke Frecklington, Penthouse pet of the year, Australia, 2004). Everything else I saw looked fake and nasty in a stripper/hooker/trailer trash sort of way.
In the longer term, implants always have problems and have to be taken out. When that happens, your tits look like deflated balloons. If silicone leaks and gets into your lymphatic system you have a serious problem. It can kill you a particularly nasty way.
If you really and truly are motivated strongly to have bigger tits, talk to a plastic surgeon about a technique that sucks fat from your arse and thighs and injects it into your breasts. This has to be done several times, because the body reabsorbs about 60 per cent of each fat transfer.
I would encourage you to ask your doctor for a referral to a psychiatrist to discuss the distress you feel about the size of your breasts. There is something going on that is manifesting as that distress and you need professional help.
Of course we males like to admire big tits. What is not to like? Men also like women who are as flat as little boys. If we love the girl we lover her, regardless of the size of her tits.
I have been with women who were as flat as a 10-year-old boy and a woman who had truly massive tits. Truth is, I was in love with the A cup woman. What matters is the overall package, which includes her mind. There is a lot more to a woman than the size of her tits.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

The size of your boobs would absolutely NOT stop me from wanting to date you, and I'm a "breast man." The fact that you've allowed a few jerks to get to you so profoundly and that you see your value based on the size of your boobs tells me that you likely have some mental issues, and THAT might well stop me from wanting to date you.

Implants will NOT fix the issues that you have, which are mental, and are a lack of confidence and self-worth. They might SEEM to "work" for a little while, but before long, once you realize that nothing has really changed, you will be searching for a new solution - like some women who get bigger and bigger implants to try to get to the point where they feel good about themselves.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I kind of despise my big boobs too sometimes, but I am trying to get over it. I really wish I had smaller ones, you have no idea how uncomfortable they can be.
My point is: everyone has to work on their insecurities. Breast implants may give you a temporary pleasure, but afterwards either you may end up regretting it, or you will start blaming another body part of yours. We are never absolutely content with ourselves, but we always have to work with the things we have.
The majority of guys would feel perfectably CONTENT with your breast size and some girls even would kill to have your size. I know for sure I would. You can wear almost anything in your size without looking like a skank.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Plastic surgeons don't like to work on people with body dismorphia.

You're still not going to like your body even after you have boobs it's not an external problem with the way you look it's an internal problem with your self confidence. You're never going to be satisfied no matter what type of plastic surgery you get done.

You really need to work on your inside before you can work on your outside or else you're going to be here after you get your boobs done complaining that they're too big.

moira19 · Accepted Answer

Look, i dont have big breasts, but i know im more than a pair of boobs. More than a body. I am not here to please any guy in any way, im here to be happy the way i am. You will find a guy that will treat you right and will love all the things you hate about yourself.

Theguyoverthere · Answer

Trust me there's a shitload of guys who like smaller cups and honestly, you're more than a pair of boobs. I honestly feel that if you were to get the implants done that you'd just live your life thinking that the guy you're dating woulda never loved you if you had a smaller cup and that'll just fuck with your head even further. You'll then come back saying "How come guys don't look at my face when I'm talking to them?" If a guy dumped you over that years later that's dumb because he shoulda never wasted your time to begin with.

I would only recommend this kinda stuff to women in like post pregnancy types of situations and that's if they are hellbent on it. Just having a small pair is not a problem at all.

Many guys would even prefer them over these fat girls who only having bigger sizes because they're overweight.

meatballs21 · Answer

I'm so sorry to hear you're so unhappy and you've had assholes making rude comments. There are guys out there who love and prefer small breasts. After all the pain you've endured it probably doesn't sound believable but I assure you it's true. I hope you won't end up swapping jibes about small breasts for jibes about fake breasts.

Anonymous · Answer

Eh well I'm a guy and I don't really care for boobs as much as I do for a nice butt. If a chick has a nice butt and a small chest I dont care at all but if she has a flat but and big boobs I would have to think about it lol. But do what makes you happy of course. I'm scared I might go bald one day and would totally get a hair transplant if I do lol, I dont care that people think guys shouldn't be as worried about their appearance lol. I understand where you are coming from it is easy to say no when you dont have the problem but when you do its a different story. So all in all if you think itll make your life better than do it. Just don't abuse surgery and go from one surgery to another one to another one.

i1T2daty · Answer

Are you nuts. I think your type of chest is the sexiest looking a woman can have. I'm so turned on by the slender, lithe look. They have always been the most passionate lovers I have ever... Please don't get implants. Look at how many models are small breasted.

It's painful to hear you refer to a body style that I find so sexy with such obvious distaste. Wish you weren't anon.

Ensiferum · Answer

Having smaller boobs is a good thing! You will keep the douchebag away that want to be with a girl just for her boobs, so your most likely to find a nice guy instead ( that you will eventually friendzone, because he is nice (jk) ). In all seriousness, I dont care at all about boob size, and a lot of guys dont too. So dont change and dont be too parano, thinking every one is judging you.

RTMeeks7 · Answer

Getting implants for such reasons? You should be glad for what you have, do not get influenced what other people say, it is your body. Also, implants are bad for your body, since you are integrating an unknown substance.

Flat4 · Answer

So this girl needs a boob job in your world then... hell no! I guarantee if you just take the plunge with your confidence and dress to impress and show Off your slender body things will change

SatanClaus · Answer

I don't think bigger breast is the best cure for insecurity. Also the procedure could go wrong, and you might not like them that big. The insecurities will never change. Learn to love you for who you are.

bubble_tea · Answer

why don't you try wearing wonderbras first.. and see if you get hit on more with them. many women wear padded bras these days.

SkaterDude · Answer

most of the girls i know either stuff their bra or wear those padded bra and they think they fooled me but trust me all these stuff don't matter, being natural is more attractive than all these weird stuff

Mesonfielde · Answer

Implants suck, spend your money on something else that actually has meaning.

bubbletrouble · Answer

There's countless guys that like small boobs so no don't get them.

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