A person whom I knew for 9 years has passed on. Should I unfriend him on fb and delete his conact number? Does that make me cold? Am i weird if i keep it? people keep posting condolesence messages and tagging that person and it makes me feel sad but i dont want to lose the only link i have got that remains of that person.
Most Helpful Girl
i can understand why u want to do this. it doesn't make u cold. if it makes u that sad, best to unfriend and try to move on. if you feel you can cope with the memory of that person and the messages ur being tagged in, then it's nice to allow his memory to live on, especially if u were any kind of close. it's your call.0
Most Helpful Guy
You can do as you please. I had a friend die in a car wreck one day before Thanksgiving and I kept her as a friend for about 6 weeks so I could see the grieving posts of her other friends. When I felt I had seen enough, I unfriended her account. I still remember her, I don't need Facebook to do that. In fact, I no longer even have that FB account. Got tired of the entire platform. If you want to unfriend the account, you can screenshot or save the page as a file so you can refer back to it if you feel the need. But no, it doesn't make you a cold person. Everyone deals with death in their own way And as long as you're doing no harm, there is no wrong way. Please accept my condolences for your loss. :-(1