Here's a short allegory:
Friendzoned- Rejected guy who can't take a hint. He tries to be the good guy, but is actually the nice guy and complains why the 'bitch' won't take him. Rejected obsessor with manipulative designs. Danger level: -9000
Bitch- Proud queen, insecure, pairs with dbag
Douchebag- Friendzone's submission cry
Nice Guy TM- See friend zone
Good guy- Builds a utopia for everyone to live in, expects nothing in return.
Shy girl- Believes herself to be socially awkward, while possessing all the qualities of an ideal girlfriend or wife.
Shy guy- Lacks a hobby without a computer
2012 Apocalypse- Ignore Mayan predictions, people who want the world to end.
Sweet girl- What the Nice Guy TM thinks of his crush
Whore- First definition obvious; used by guys who can't take rejection
Bad boy/Jerk- Uses negative traits to gain dignity, sex and possessions with self-entitlement. Like Nice Guy TM who uses positive traits to mask the negative ones.
Bros before hoes- When male friends fight over the same girl and not really adhering to promise
Quiet person- Villain, mad scientist, antichrist and the definition of fear. Or the friendly person you greet everyday in your boring life.
Forever Alone- Yet to take the first step in puberty.
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Nice guys are too nice. "Bad boys" can be more real.
Nice guys are not 100% honest. If a girl asks a nice guy if the dress on her looks good, he may just say it does as to not hurt her feelings while the so-called "bad boy" will let her know if it doesn't.
Nice guys cannot protect women. They are too scared and don't know what to do. The "bad boy" will step in and defend her when she needs it.
Nice guys are too insecure to express how they feel. The girl will never get to know what he's really thinking. If they do, they just do something stupid like smother the girl they barely know with a dozen roses at her doorstep after 3 dates.
Nice guys want sex but are too insecure to say so. They have too many emotional problems getting in the way and play by the "It's wrong to have hormones" policy and act like it's to respect women when they are actually desperate for sex all along.
Nice guys idolize women to the point where it is insulting to their own dignity. They'll meet a girl they barely know and act like she is a goddess without her even doing anything but looking pretty. This sets them up to be taken advantage of.
Nice guys cause their own problems.
Yes defintely! For me men need to be kind and know how to treat a girl well. But too nice would scare me off because I would get the impression they might be soft (or too nice for me!)
I like a guy who can take a bit of controll and enjoys dominance and power and is not affraid to show it and use it but still knows how to make me feel good in a romantic way time to time.
But some girls really do want the nice squishy romantic type only, ever.
A real man knows who he is, understands who is and likes who he is - with or without anyone around. He is stable, confident, strong, sophisticated, respectable and honorable.
Real men are genuinely kind. I can't stand the guy who is nice to everyone because he is a coward. But if a guy is nice because that is who he is, that's genuine.
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Alright guys, let's clear this up a bit.
The typical "nice guy" is a guy who engages in behavior that is needy, supplicative, and otherwise operates from a stand point of "please like me". He doesn't want to rock the boat and is typically scared to make real moves with women. These guys typically shower girls with too much attention and praise thinking that's what women want (this is where neediness comes into play)
A typical "bad boy" is someone who acts and appears confident. Women dig this about men. They want confident guys who know what they want and aren't afraid to go for it. Note, there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and unfortunately, ladies fall for arrogant dudes mistakenly.
A true gent is someone who is confident, respectful and knows what he wants in life and with women. He's not afraid to go for it, he's not afraid of risking rejection and he's not scared of showing her he's interested in becoming more than friends.I have seen Girls confuse Bad Boys for being stronger guys which is not always the case and end up screwing themselves, however even as a guy who would like all goody goody guys around? Being a 'Good Guy' never really means being polite, being very aloof, or being quiet, shy & sweet...you have to take charge and pursue your girl with a mild aggression coupled with a friendly yet a bit sarcastic sense of humor. ..just be yourself !
Can you please explain to me what makes someone a "nice guy" and what makes someone a "badboy"?
Are you still a teenager?
Such black & white thinking won't get you far - nothing is downright pure or completely bad.Please shut up and stop acting like those are the only two types of guys in this world.
False dichotomy... Your question is invalid..
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