Women, do you care if your guy watches porn?

[cardioman65]

If I guy starts dating and he likes to watch porn, should he tell his gal? Or should he just keep it a secret?

[April]

If you're in a new relationship I don't think it's anything that should be brought up over dinner, haha. I think if she has mentioned she finds it morally wrong or has personal issues with guys who choose to watch porn it's probably worth mentioning so she can decide whether or not she wants to pursue a relationship. I think it's better to have a conversation like that early on in a relationship vs. Waiting until you guys are moving in together!

I personally don't care if my guy watches porn in small doses. Because of his job (military) he spends up to 3 months away from me at a time. It's kind of a given that he's going to watch it some. Now if he'd rather watch porn than have sex with me, I may find that a little disturbing, but no problems with it here, for what it's worth. I'm not her though so. Good luck!

[CryxOutx]

Honestly, I have no problem with my guy watching porn whatsoever.

First of all, I expect it,(as do most teenage girls) and in an odd way, a lot of girls find it kind of cute.

&& if you guys are in a relationship where there isn't much to any sex, then she shouldn't have a problem with it. I mean, you've gotta have some fun, right?

And, if you wanna know a secret, a lot of girls do it too. Out of curiosity, for the hell of it, or. For the same "reason" that guys do it.

And, really, its personal and one of those things that isn't important she knows. So if you want to, you can tell her, but don't feel like you must.

FYI: if you do tell her and she does get upset, she's way too sensitive.

[Deeplove55]

It doesn't bother me. Its not like he's in the movie with the girl. He's just watching it. Also, its what guys are known for doing. I'm ok with it as long as he's not addicted to it. But he don't have to tell me he watches porno. I do too. Lol.

[anonn]

You should tell her because its never a good thing to start out with secrets. But don't just blurt it out. Lol find a good time

[southerngirl]

To find out if porn doesn't bother her maybe suggest watching a movie together and see what her reaction would be.