Girls, what would you do if your boyfriend screamed in your face and pushed you against the wall?

[overachievinglunatic]

and then pushes you to the ground, pins you down, and yells at you "WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME BITCH? WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME? WHY DID YOU SLEEP WITH THAT OTHER MAN? DO YOU NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE YOU FUCKING BITCH? I WILL STRANGLE YOU TO DEATH RIGHT NOW!" and then puts his hands around your neck, squeezes until you black out, and then lets go.

Thanks for reading!! :) Please share your opinion! :) :D

[MaskedSanity]

There would be no blacking out, because he'd be too busy trying to locate his swiftly kicked in balls while I escape and call the police.

Also, I don't cheat. But even if I did, I would not allow anyone to put their hands on me. I do not play fair when my life is in danger, so his gonads would be obliterated to the point where he wouldn't be able to get up to pursue me, thus allowing me enough time to get the fuck out as quickly as possible.

[overachievinglunatic]

nice! I like a woman who knows how to kick a man in the balls!

[MaskedSanity]

Thank fuck I've never been in a situation where I'd have to.

[overachievinglunatic]

what if a guy asks you to politely?

[MaskedSanity]

Why? What guy in his right mind would want someone to inflict that much pain on him?

[overachievinglunatic]

I thought pain was arousing?
Why do people like S/M?

[SandPlanet]

He obviously has a fetish for this kind of thing. That's why he posted this scenario and asked this question in the first place - because he was hoping to get some females to talk about how they'd kick the guy in the nuts. Disguising a sexual fantasy as a genuine question or a real story, is pretty common on internet forums. I always see through them.

[MaskedSanity]

@SandPlanet

Eww, I feel violated. Somehow.

[Azara]

There's no way it would get that far. Id have beat the shit out if sine part if his body as soon as he started sum creaming in my face threatening me.

Then if press charges. Warn everyone about him. Other than the court date he'd be 100 '% out if my life.

[overachievinglunatic]

What part of his body would you beat the shit out of?

[Azara]

it would depend on in what way i was compromised and what part of him was closet to me but likely throat or testicles would be my first target.

[SandPlanet]

I would defend myself physically, no matter what it takes. Knock him out somehow. Then, if I manage to escape, report him to the police.

That's all I can think of.

[overachievinglunatic]

How would you knock him out? With the lamp shade or the fire extinguisher?

[SandPlanet]

Whatever the situation allows for.

Can you tell me what the purpose of this question is? Please don't say you're just curious. What exactly is it that made you ask this question?

[overachievinglunatic]

I saw a scene similar to it in a movie lol :P

[SandPlanet]

I just saw your comment under MaskedSanity's answer. I think you're not being honest with us. I think I know what your true motives are.

[overachievinglunatic]

I am completely nuts to be quite honest with you but I go to therapy 3 days a week and also go to church every Sunday! :D

[SandPlanet]

Doesn't seem to help much.

[overachievinglunatic]

At least I try, maybe you can help me! :)

[SandPlanet]

I'm not qualified to offer psychological help, and I don't give a crap about church.

[musicbrain5]

I would defend myself in anyway possible, call the police, and then get the fuck out of there and never look back.

[overachievinglunatic]

yes, but would you kick him in the balls? lol :)

[musicbrain5]

I'd likely do more than that. You seem to be acting pretty flippant about such a serious issue here.

[rthomas43]

They would probably be so aroused by his display of dominance that they'd immediately drop to their knees and give him the best fellatio the world has ever known.

[overachievinglunatic]

my nigga

[JackKerouac77]

Sounds like a rap song in the making...

OH WAIT IT'S ALREADY BEEN DONE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI9VSvxY3Ho

[musicbrain5]

Seriously?

[rthomas43]

@musicbrain5

Is that seriously directed at me?

[musicbrain5]

Yeah. I mean, I hope you're just being facetious but I can't be sure. A few popular people on here have genuinely surprised me with their opinions as of late.

[rthomas43]

@musicbrain5

I was in fact being facetious, and I'm a bit insulted that you had to ask.

[musicbrain5]

Well sorry, I'm not exactly that intelligent here. Very academically smart but jokes on the Internet usually fly right over my head.

[JackKerouac77]

@rthomas43
@musicbrain5

Jokes on the internet (or anything written) are hard to interpret because the inflection of a person's voice (which describes mood and tone) is absent, therefore leading sentences like "Fuck you" to either be insults, shrugs, jokes or oddities. How can you know, unless you hear the other person actually say it in context?

BASICALLY, NOBODY PULL OUT THEIR 9 AND START BLASTIN' RIGHT QUICK

[Maazin]

I wanted to say something similar but :P

[Azara]

this response is more disgusting than the question. 'jk' or not.

[Katniss_Night]

ok um so stop right there.

S T O P

Alright listen. We do not, in fact, love your 'dominance' just because we are women. Get it straight. WE DO NOT LIKE IT. IT'S NOT A DISPLAY OF DOMINANCE. IT'S A VIOLATION OF OUR SPACE AND OUR HUMAN RIGHTS. It is HORRIBLE RAPE that women can be TRAUMATIZED about. We will NOT drop to our knees and blow you for raping us. Unless we do it willingly, DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT.

[Katniss_Night]

I WOULD.
CALL.
THE.
FUCKING.
POLICE.

I would like you to STOP RIGHT THERE. IF YOU ARE A GUY. AND ARE CONSIDERING THIS. IF YOU ARE READING THIS, DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT. Do NOT.

Alright so.

As a survivor of rape, this is a sign of rape. If you do not ask for consent (and get a yes, in that matter) and do this, that is sexual assault. That is rape. That is violation of human rights and human space.

As girls, we are not obliged to love you if you love us. Get it right, please. Like, please. Please with cherries on top. Just because you like to be dominant and don't like your girl looking at anyone else does not mean we have to be submissive and love you and never look at another man at all. Your relationship is toxic if she does not have a degradation kink and you degrade her. And it is sexual abuse if she does not like it when you choke her.

But anyways, what I would do, is probably have a panic attack. I have been raped. Three times, fifteen people, not evenly distributed. I would fight back best I can, but it is hard during a panic attack. I would use my whole body to try and push him off me, all the while screaming 'HELP' as loud as I freaking can. And I will try to whip out my phone and take pictures or a video as proof.

If I get away safely, I WILL press charges. I'll write up a blog on him and warn everyone I know to get as far away from him as possible. I will spend a whole day writing and calling people in the court. I will get him in jail and make sure he stays there as long as I can get him to.

Then I'll try and forget him, of course.

[Anonymous]

Brieftly revert back to the way I was as a kid (a violent bully) and apply that on him. Not a good idea to mess with a reformed person who had anger issues in the past. As a child, I had several traits of what could have been that of a potential sociopath but off course I'm not a sociopath. I did developed empathy and started feeling remorse as soon as I hit the teen years.

[Anonymous]

Since I dislike your flippancy about this (thanks @musicbrain5)...
I usually forget that guys can be brought down by a kick there. If I couldn't get a guy off me I might actually go for the throat. Like, literally.
Not violent but stronger than I look.
Probably wouldn't kill him though God forbid. Just leave him unconscious.

[Anonymous]

First I would be confused since I would never do anything like that. Then, I would be start to be scared by it, his screaming and all. However, I would start to notice that I find it rather hot... him being agressive like that. It would make me wonder if he's doing some kind of breath play here (very unlikely, but possible) and find it a turn on until I black out.
In all seriousness, what I would really do is try to push him off.

[Anonymous]

Are you serious? Like why is that even a question? Obviously he has some serious anger issues and youneed to break up with him now ! .. & what I'm about to say goes for every girl out here , I learned this in my criminal justice class , if any guy/girl says this right here ( if I can't have you , then nobody will) he/she will kill you.. I've seen this in so many murder cases. PLEASE BE CAREFUL with those type of people and ask for some help or go to the police and report his ass !

[overachievinglunatic]

Thanks, but this is not a real life situation lol I saw it in a movie

[bambi3]

I would beat the fuck outta, (kick to the balls & then the temple& ear area as hard as I can once he's writhing in pain/disorientated fuck him up foreal) fuck that shit.

[SimpleBelle]

I'd cry, then run, then cry some more, then get help. I would never ever go back to him though, men have no excuse to be violent towards women and of course vice versa.

[Creole_Flavor]

I would break his fucking face or probably shoot him If I felt threatened and if he was stronger than me

[Anonymous]

Well, when I woke back up, I'd call my 6 brothers to deal with him since I'm obviously not strong enough to best him up myself if he did all that.

If I had no brothers, I guess I'd either call my male friends, or as last resort call the police.

[Anonymous]

I would have kicked him in the dick before I blacked out, and then once I woke up I would have kicked him again so hard that it would fall off. I don't take that shit from anyone. No one should.

[overachievinglunatic]

nice!

[Azara]

sorry. meant to up vote you. :)

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Slap his face, kick his bulls, break up with him and show him the door :)

[Maazin]

wow.. sounds scary xD

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@Maazin so he shouldn't push me to the wall :3

[Maazin]

fair enough :D

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@Maazin ;)

[danilove45]

fight back!!! ok wait that's probably why you would go sleep with someone else cause your boyfriend is abusive and you rather be with a guy who isn't

[BassistForever]

I'd leave, change my phone number and email and never talk to him again.

[notcreativethough]

If a girl did that to me I'd probably just get aroused, never tried erotic asphyxiation.

[RestlessYouth_]

Get my fucking pepper spray and knife, to stab and blind his ass before I call the cops. The hell.

[demonology]

you should get into literature and become a writer.

[Anonymous]

im a little girl (size not age) and scenarios like this come to my mind sometimes and it scares me A LOT
so... thanks lol

[overachievinglunatic]

If you are smaller you can punch his balls more easily :)

[Opinion Owner]

i would probably be too traumatized lol but yea i guess i could do that lol

[overachievinglunatic]

nice, mmmm that sounds nice. lol jk

[Anonymous]

I would be confused whether i would call the cops on him or find someone who would beat the fuck out of him.

[Worldsugliestman]

Knowing how some of the women on her think? They would probably find that attractive.

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Imma take a wild guess at they'd leave him.