Do you believe you could ever be in an open relationship?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Yes

No

[LittleMissCuriousity]

It really depends on what you're calling an open relationship. Are you talking about dating one person while having sex with others? Technically, that's an open relationship. I'm polyamorous, which means that I date more than one person at once and they all know. It's not cheating, and it's not an open relationship. It's just my preference.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Cool, i can't understand that, but more power to ya

[LittleMissCuriousity]

I can explain if you'd like. Is there something in particular that you don't understand?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Well i mean i want to be able to understand it personally... if that makes sense. Because i imagine there is something quite freeing about dating multiple people at once but i wonder if its too much work? I mean dating one person and letting them into your life is hard. Dating 2 or 3 is even more so... Im wondering if you let go or get exhausted by it all... Like is it difficult?

[LittleMissCuriousity]

It takes some getting used to. You definitely have to be open and willing to share. Communication is a huge part of it. Usually, you would already be in one relationship and fairly stable before beginning the next. Throughout it, you have to communicate with both (or more) partners, make sure that no one feels left out and that everyone is still comfortable. It can be difficult, but it takes time and patience.

[DrGtheMD]

times change. In the old days dating many people was ok and none of anyone's business. And yes I had sex with thhemm all. Now it's all about a "relationship." Hell, you are only 21. Why are you in a "relationship in the first place? You'll never learn about guys by excluding others so soon

[LittleMissCuriousity]

@DrGtheMD Exclusion isn't a part of it. You missed the point.

[DrGtheMD]

I was agreeing with you. My comment was addressed to I was agreeing with you. My comment was addressed to Asker age 21. Sorry for confusion

[LittleMissCuriousity]

Thank you for clarifying.

[MargaritaPeach]

That type of sharing, no. But if we were on different parts of the planet for years on end, and he needed sex, or I needed sex, I might consider some type of arrangement, I guess.

[cinderelli]

How about you fuck your girl.. nut on her face... make her call you daddy.. AND cuddle at night too... now that's a real win against rest of the guys in the world..

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Me? I don't have a girl
.. but yeah great advice for guys, hole in 1

[cinderelli]

It was a general statement and I didn't know this is your question!! 😅😅

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Oh my god xD
nice cindi.
nut on her face huh? well everyone has their preferences

[cinderelli]

Yeah everyone's got a weird kink or two😁😁

[OrdinaryGentleman]

No needs to be ashamed, its chill :)

[cinderelli]

thanks for MHO.. :D

[OrdinaryGentleman]

You deserved it for that comment

[cinderelli]

:) <3

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Lol <3

[brianna_b]

To answer Mr. Mack:

Has she wiped off the "nut"?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Imagine he and his gurl french kissed after... maybe he's Bi?

[brianna_b]

It's a jizz cuddle!!! That's real sweet, Mr. Mack.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Jizz cuddle? like leftover jizz or his?

[brianna_b]

Well certainly not hizz.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Hmm turn her over... put a pillow under her hips and flop around

[brianna_b]

Sounds sexy.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Only when i whip out my 2.5 incher after a solid 30 minutes of crying

[brianna_b]

Then she knows you mean BIZZNESS

[OrdinaryGentleman]

she'll know i mean it after a full 30 seconds of ecstasy

[brianna_b]

Well truth be told "30 seconds of ecstasy" would be 30 seconds more than most women experience in a lifetime. And a 30 second orgasm is nothing to sneeze at. Or did you mean that the 2.5 incher delivers a cool 30 seconds of penetrative ecstasy before the point of jizzness.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Oh definitely the second one. I go in hard like that, no room for softies here

[brianna_b]

Soundtrack: HERE I AM... ROOOOOOOCK you like a HURRYCANE

[OrdinaryGentleman]

emphasis on the hurry, but hey... had sex

[brianna_b]

Fuck yeah I bust in 30 seconds, bitch. COULD YOU ASK FOR MORE?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

So finish at the same time? ill bring handcuffs, we are gonna need them

[brianna_b]

No, I'm quoting. But better be quick-release cuffs.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

so that's how it is... fine.
No, normal handcuffs, in the back of a random windowless van with free candy spray painted on the side.

[brianna_b]

Don't forget the shag carpet.

[EllieLexis513]

Hahahahaha... this comment though... too much :p

[the_rake]

there's no way that guy 'wins'. if she is with other guys when he's not around she does not really care about him: there's zero emotional intimacy - the thing that he thinks means he compensates for letting his partner sleep around and perform degrading sexual acts for complete strangers.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

pretty much sums this up. well put

[ThisDudeHere]

Absofuckinglutely not. God no. Fuck no. Screw that shit.
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[takumii]

Lol nope, ew wtf is that anyway.
Either give full commitment or give none.
Open relationship is like giving half a fuck.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

She gives plenty of fucks like my mom

[takumii]

She? When did you hetero?

[OrdinaryGentleman]

I ain't gay but in prison we would beat yo ass and suck that dick.

[takumii]

Fine do it in the reverse order though. Good things first.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Man thats gay.

[takumii]

I am sorry forgot the #nohomo

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Its all g, I've never said anything gay in my life, no wut im sayin?

[Applefan1]

No, if she can't stick to only 1 man she is not going to date me.

[ZenithDawn]

:l I don't know they make some strong glue today im sure she would stick to just you but if you add too much something else might stick to

[Applefan1]

@ZenithDawn if she can't be trusted not to cheat she is not worth my time or effort. lol.

[ZenithDawn]

:l i was making a glue joke but ok.

[Applefan1]

@ZenithDawn oh ok sorry.

[LaVilaine]

Couldn't do it. I don't really see how it can be called a relationship, but different strokes I suppose.

[Phoenix98]

no I know for a fact I couldn't do it and wouldn't want to, if your with me your with me alone, no one else.

[06CuriousMind]

absolutely not. i can deal with close friendships and stuff. Im not a jealous person at all. But the minute i find out they've taken their friendship to the next level the trust would be gone.

[menina]

Nope. It doesn't seem a good idea to me. Plus, I don't like sharing.

[stereo_heart]

No.
I can't share my boyfriend with anyone. He is not an object , but a real peron.
Never

[takumii]

So you won't share your mother with your siblings?

[stereo_heart]

@takumii It's not like that.
how come sharing mother with sibling is even related to sharing boyfriend with someone?

[stereo_heart]

it's about commitment.

[takumii]

Why your mother is not a real Peron? Is she an 'object' ?

[Nepalithitone]

@takumii thats totally senseless comment.. sharing mother and sharing life prtners are two totally different things.

[aficionado]

Never! I'd rather be single, than be in an open relationship.

[SwissMade]

Nope, I believe if you love me than you'll have boundaries... I should be all you need in a relationship as you'll be all I need in a romantic relationship.

[Harbor]

Omg please tell me that guy was joking. To answer your question... Hell to the no I don't share.

[ZenithDawn]

i when i see boys talkin to my boyfriend i get into my fight mode because my boyfriend IS MY BOO AND MY FUCKING BOOO ALONE NO ONE ELSE CAN TOUCH HIM BUT ME [even though its him touching me] TOUCH HIS BUTT AND SEE IF I DONT KNOCK YOU OUT.

[jacquesvol]

I always knew I could accept it, yes. The only problem was dividing my very limited spare time between several. Thus it would have been one sided.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Well Im in one. So imma say yes.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Wow, is it easy?

[BaileyisDarcy]

We haven't had the arrangement for long, but so far it hasn't caused any arguments.

I can't speak for how easy it is, as I haven't noticed a difference and it is different for every couple. If we were to break up I might find the same arrangement harder if I were to be in a relationship with somebody else.

But so far? Im happy with it. And I daresay he is too.

[Melcart23]

No. Open relationships are the dumbest thing I have ever seen. People can't have it both ways you selfish clowns.

[Nomad69]

Yeah but it would be just for fun, not no were getting married bs

[CHARismatic110]

I don't like sharing lol

[meesh1220]

Oh hell no. I don't share.

[samhradh_leannan]

Nope, I would never even try.

[AzureGirl]

Never. I'm not into sharing my man.

[mooky06]

I have no appeal for such.