The other night was our one night off together we are shift workers so often don't see a lot of each other and I was under the impression we had plans to do something together. He came home from work and said he was going to a friends place for drinks and a BBQ. He didn't invite me to come along so I asked if he cared if I came and he said it didn't matter to him. I later saw a text he had sent to a friend that was already at the BBQ asking "Is it girl friendly there? The girlfriend is bugging me to come" ... should I say something or be worried about that comment? Should I be bothered that when he hangs out with his friends now he doesn't really ever seem to want me to come out too? I feel pretty hurt by the text he sent and that he doesn't want me around when he's with his friends.
Should it bother me that my boyfriend didn't invite me?
The other night was our one night off together we are shift workers so often don't see a lot of each other and I was under the impression we had plans to do something together. He came home from work and said he was going to a friends place for drinks and a BBQ. He didn't invite me to come along so I asked if he cared if I came and he said it didn't matter to him. I later saw a text he had sent to a friend that was already at the BBQ asking "Is it girl friendly there? The girlfriend is bugging me to come" ... should I say something or be worried about that comment? Should I be bothered that when he hangs out with his friends now he doesn't really ever seem to want me to come out too? I feel pretty hurt by the text he sent and that he doesn't want me around when he's with his friends.
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