well one thing as hard as it may seem don't just throw yourself out there just to get the one night stand 2 things about that guys like innocence and that just comes off as needy. Once you find a guy as soon as he learns that stuff about you he may become a lot less attracted to you. I'm sure your not ugly I personally not the best looking kid but I some how found a girl and I never thought I would get one and its pretty sad I went all through high school and never actually went out with some one but that's besides the point. Don't just give up as hard as it is sometimes you just have to wait and that's just sometimes how it goes. I posted an article about flirting sometimes that seems to help a little some people can't read the signs and some people don't know how to do it and your guy friends, maybe if you like one should try talking to one of them about stuff and maybe they will figure your looking for someone and maybe they will get the hint. Don't change who you are just cause a lot of guys just want sex. Good luck to you and stay strong it will pay off. :)
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Do you have an older brother? Or worse yet, brothers? Older meaning like out of high school and in college or military older? If so, that's a big deal. Also is your father military or in law enforcement? Same problem.
Things like that don't scare all guys (I know it doesn't scare me because I have nothing to hide) but it does scare a large number of young men.
If it's not that, then as shallow as it may seem, maybe guys don't find you attractive, this is usually due to looks but it can be other things as well. Maybe they see you as too clingy? or maybe they don't like your attitude, or even because they might see you trying to hard and think your desperate. I don't know you so I'm not saying it's any of these things, only offering up what I can think of.
Maybe you're too busy worrying to notice or appear un approachable to guys
Why not ask a guy out
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what I would do is hang out with one of your girl friends so she can hook you up with guys. For example go to the movies with your friends and guys and flirt with one of them. Eventually it will lead to something more.
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