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Search Results: how to tell if someone is interested
Why did this autistic guy gaslight me, lie about his identity, and then act nicer afterward?
I met a guy (we both have Asperger's Syndrome); and he had told me multiple times that I was ugly and that he had chosen someone else over me, when I was trying to be friends with him. He had also said he was my...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Is it inappropriate to ask my old supervisor for my ex-boss’s number?
I worked at a janitorial job years ago but was let go because I got into legal issues. I got a job at mcdonald's since. I forgot what position she is. I think she's the executive director. Well she came through the drive...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Guys, why would you suddenly ghost a close friend after reconnecting?
Years ago, a coworker and I became really good friends. We went on a couple of dates, but nothing serious came of it, and we eventually drifted apart. There was some awkwardness, but no major fight. A few years later, I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my coworker actually interested or am I overthinking her signals?
I have gotten pretty close to a coworker over the past few weeks. When we first exchanged numbers, she’d take forever to text back and even admitted she “forgot” to respond sometimes. Then after she went through some...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do men ever hide romantic interest by insisting they’re not attracted?
I have a guy friend who I care about very much as a friend and I’m worried about losing his friendship. He made it clear that he wasn’t interested enough in me to date me, told me he’d gone camping with another woman he...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?
I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...
Guttercat8
Xper 1 Age: 23 How can a shy, quiet girl actually get a boyfriend if guys overlook her?
I do talk but still labeled as quiet. ironically I’m alone all the time cuz I have no boyfriend or husband next to clingy following me 24/7 in a serious relationship chatting laughing. As I don’t have that I’m alone...
Anonymous
(25-29) Addiction, emotional abuse, and a new house: should I stay or leave my husband?
I’m 25, and my life has become a tangled web I’m trying to untangle. My husband, J, is 35, and my ex, B (the father of my child), is 24. I met J two years ago after a long, on-and-off five-year relationship with B. We...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do men want someone like me but never actually choose me?
Hey, I see this very interesting trend. I meet guys, we have something. And they show attraction, liking, everything, in a way they get imprinted by me - then I see them looking for who I am but externally. Not with me....
Anonymous
(25-29) How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?
My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why was he flirty and lingering with me if he had a girlfriend?
He didn't tell me either. So I was teaching him piano and he had an interest early on which was clear. But he would always try staying way overtime. Eventually he was a bit more playful and also complimented how I...
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 Why does dating always go wrong for me despite multiple chances?
Woman A: Were on and off for two years and she wanted me to commit to her. When I finally asked her to be my girlfriend, she was no longer interested. She said I was rude to her friends and belittled her job as a nanny....
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you share that you have an SO? Why are some guys so AWKWARD about it?
Guys... some of you make me laugh the way you announce that you're "seeing someone" or have a girlfriend/SO. If I'm seeing someone -- and yes, to me that is synonymous with "serious"/"exclusive"/"boyfriend" -- I just say...
Can you stay sexually attracted to someone if you dislike their personality?
myself i feel like it wouldn't happen that much and was having a hard time even coming up with an example of someone i really liked but did not like there personality , feel like i might notice someone cause of there...
Anonymous
(36-45) Emotionally close but not official after months of talking. What are we?
I (25F) have been talking long distance with a guy (29M) for a while now and I’m trying to understand the dynamic because it feels emotionally serious, but also unclear at the same time We talk every single day. maybe...
casssseydayo
Xper 1 Age: 20 What are we can anyone give me advices?
I (25F) need honest opinions about a guy (29M) I’ve been talking to long distance for a while now because I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overthinking or if something changed 😭 We talk every single day, but we’re still not...
casssseydayo
Xper 1 Age: 20 How can I tell which women are actually interested in dating me?
I have been in a lot of dating apps, cafes and socials but I never know which girls to go after. I had a good experience with conversations, but asking for a number got fake numbers, phone died and I don't know my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong of this guy to act this way?
I was friends with benefits with this guy for a month and he wanted to “slut me out” and I found out he was controlling because he said you got to put me first and cancel with the other guy to have sex with me if I am...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I tell him my Tinder check may have caused his breakup?
I initially met this bloke at a gig. We went on a couple of dates before communication on his end dried up. He just didn't seem that interested in me and though I liked him, I let him go. I tried to see other people. But...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is she actually interested in me or just being friendly and playful?
This girl has me confused. In my guy brain I think interest is there, but I could be wrong. There will be times where she’ll be come sit next to me on the computer I’ll be working at and just be attentive to what I’m...
MikeJones150
Xper 3 Age: 26 