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We travel in our vehicles for work. The other day I got in a medium dangerous car accident and my vehicle became inoperable. I sent a picture of my vehicle to my boss and said that I won't be able to work today.

He showed concern and then immediately asked if I could work the weekend, at all. I didn't take it any type of way and said that I doubt I would be able to work the weekend. I probably won't have my vehicle for Saturday, and I needed Sunday off anyway. He doesn't respond to my text message.

45 minutes later he sends a long email to the entire team about how we signed up to work weekends and we all need to suck it up and work weekends because it's not really doable to expect both days off.

Naturally, I got a bit defensive and I told him I'm not trying to have the weekend off, I'm literally sitting in the mechanics right now trying to get my vehicle back. I don't appreciate the email about not wanting to work.

He acted a bit confused and then told me that the email wasn't about me and was about my other teammates. I find it hard to believe that I'm not lumped in there or that my situation didn't trigger this email, but I actually do believe him after he explains it to me.

Here's the thing though. He acted like I was crazy for thinking that at all and was gaslighting me that it's ridiculous I thought it was about me. He basically dismissed me and my response and told me I need to chill out and acted like I was creating something out of nowhere. Like he essentially said "You're being a little B.. t. ch and creating drama out of nowhere so F how you feel because you took it the wrong way" w/out fully saying that.

I felt myself get hot because I could feel the passive aggression and him twisting the conversation so that it seemed like I was crazy. We got into it back and forth for a bit and then I said I'm not carrying this on further.

Who is in the wrong? Can you not see my point of view that I would think that? Did my boss gaslight me or is this all on me?

I am crazy about this girl. We had a short but full on relationship. The last two weeks there was arguing then we broke it off and it was mainly her not wanting it. She did consider getting back, but felt a weight off her shoulders when we broke it off as she thought it could get messy, thinks we could clash. Rang her the next day and she agreed to take a break. Then she rang me back a few days later and rinsed me.

Saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t provide for her and loads of reasons, and I agreed to make the necessary changes, apologised said I really like her. She was like ‘not sure not sure, you’re a nice guy.’ Said she just wants to be single for a couple months then get back to dating a new guy, and to delete the account we set up together.

It has been 1.5 months with no contact. I removed her off of instagram as soon as we broke up. Told her to never contact me again - as I thought that was it and was hurt, bit impulsive. She hasn’t blocked me off WhatsApp.

I was a good boyfriend to her. I didn’t do anything wrong, we all make small mistakes but nothing bad. We have met each others parents, a lot of marriage discussion. I thought we got on soo well. I am messed up. She was insanely beautiful as well. Once in a lifetime girl.

I dated the most stunning girl from my small religion/culture. She was phenomenally beautiful in my eyes. She had v rare features like bright green eyes and fair skin and very natural. Never seen a girl like her - how does she even exist? We had a really good connection/chemistry too!

The reasons she gave me for breaking up with me were that I was tight with money. I did gift her small things, pay for the first 5 dates, and then we did 50/50.

I wish I gave her the full princess treatment. I wish honestly 😭 I am that way inclined to provide but my sisters mainly told me not too. I wish I could go back as she told me she felt protected when I would pay for her things. She wanted the soft life. She loved the whole ‘daddy’ thing.

The part that confused me was she didn’t want to give up work when she gets married.

I was good to her, but I should’ve just worshipped her so I know I tried my best even if she left so I would have no regrets.

My first girlfriend and I should have given it my all. I still tried my best but look back at small mistakes I made. My life is over 😭

Iran said there were 4 steps US must do before any deal is signed.

1) Give Frozen Money Back

2) Israel must leave the countries they invaded

3) Allow Iran to use tolls on all ships

4) US must stop attacking Iran and lift blockade

They keep material and continue Nuclear Program

So who won? Iran gets money back and they can toll ships. That is better than before Trump started war with them.

They are still saying opposite things. I will believe it when I see it.

#1 really caught my attention.

I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get.

however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if they think you are hot or just love the game you throw at them they will use that lust to tease or test you such as replying with...

"I bet you can't handle a girl like me anyways!"

or if its love that you are bringing to the table they try to bring the realness out of you such as replying...

"is that all you got?"

so with this said I think women really do know what a man is saying most of the time. whether she chooses to act innocent however is up to her and her culture from the looks of it