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Search Results: confused by a guy
Is my best friend in love with me or just using me as a placeholder?
So me and this guy have been like best friends for almost 2 years… we have all the same nerdy interests, so much in our life mirrors and we started all of this not too long after he was in a 6 year long relationship with...
Anonymous
(30-35) How much man hate on the internet is just other countries propaganda?
Was watching some girl be like "I wonder how many guys would stop dating if they didn't have access to our bodies" And there's all these women acting like it's crazy men don't want to be in a sex less relationship or that...
Talking to a guy for 2 months… but he has a girlfriend (long-distance). Am I wasting my time?
I need outside perspectives because I feel like I’m starting to lose clarity. I’ve been talking to a guy consistently for about 2 months. We text almost daily — not just small talk, but real conversations, flirting, and...
confusedgirl1025
Xper 1 Age: 30 Do these college guys actually like us or is this just weird behavior?
So me and my friend (girls, both young adults) have basically zero experience with guys, and we’re both shy, so please help us because we feel like we’re losing the plot. Situation 1: My friend suddenly goes, “That guy...
Kelly_03
Xper 1 Age: 23 Am I emotionally unavailable or just not that into him after past trauma?
Let me start by saying I've been single for 8 years. My last relationship wasn't a healthy one. So, this is why I think I'm emotionally unavailable because I don't ever feel a romantic connection anymore. I started dating...
Anonymous
(30-35) Need brutal honesty on this gym crush situation because my brain is spiraling?
A few years ago I matched this guy on Bumble, but I killed it by constantly talking about how his friend rejected me (awkward af). We unmatched and never spoke again. Now, whenever I go to the gym he usually trains at...
Anonymous
(18-24) No feelings? Or fear of being rejected?
Me and a guy had been heavily talking/texting for a few weeks. Had a lot in common (gym, kids, and even career stuff). Had a great first date and then had a second one the next day. At the end of the second date, we ended...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are the rules?
I had a job once and there was a girl I liked. She was a manager and already in a relationship. I thought I could at least be her friend instead of pursuing a relationship because in my mind, a friendship and a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Confused by my colleagues mixed signal?
I think this guy at work is cute but we work different shifts. We only see each other on Wednesdays for five minutes when our shifts overlap. This week he worked dayside shift so I’ve been seeing him more. He said hey to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal to feel like shit months after a guy blocks you over your body?
Okay, freshly post-teen here, and I am fucking confused. Do you burn the guy that blocks you after complimenting your boobs, or do you burn yourself? That might be a bit fucking overboard, but I’m not a person that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Being called bestie, am I just someone she can talk to or does she have potential interest in me? ?
Im a guy and obviously I have a crush on this girl. Lately she's has been a bit more touchy with me it started with a brush on my back shoulder at a Christmas party when she was passing by. Then a week later she put a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Isn't this picture great?
There you have it, in this picture: fascism revealed. For a while, you'll fall under the impression that people tolerate you or fear you. You'll feel like a big, strong, intimidating man. That's because most functioning...
Danzigdawson
Xper 7 Age: 40 Befriended hot girl, what do I do now?
So I befriended a beautiful woman…unintentionally. I’m in charge of supply ordering and stocking at my job and so happen to stock her department. Many times, she has been alone when I get there, which lead us to talking...
Anonymous
(36-45) I got fired. The manager at work I was seeing blocked me?
I started this waitress job about 9 months ago everything was fine and dandy. They fired me the day before new years. Their loss. They fired me deadass 20 min before my shift it just was mad weird I was told by them im an...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, My boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years for no apparent reason?
So genuinely it was so sudden it shocked me and everyone around us. Everyone was equally confused as me. One minute everything's fine, like making plans for our wedding one, going to his family's for Christmas, then one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he block me?
I went on a solo long weekend trip to Istanbul and ended up having this intense, unexpected fling with a Turkish guy who worked at a restaurant. We met randomly when I was out to dinner with a friend, started flirting,...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to differentiate between a genuine guy and a guy who is just a player?
While I am going to stick by myself for now, military guy messaged me and said he's looking for a wife but at the same time is looking for someone to sleep with. I'm not falling for that again especially after what...
Does she hate me?
Hi, I'm a guy. I'm pretty confused about this, and I need some advice. So I have a coworker I enjoy being friends with. We have worked together for 4 years, and she tends to tell me a lot of personal stuff. She has been...
ConfusedGuy2025
Xper 1 Age: 28 Ever been repelled by a physical characteristic because someone abusive in your past had it?
If you don't get what I mean I mean like if you had a really abusive ex that had a big nose and now you're repelled by big noses because of the trauma that person caused you. Doesn't have to be an ex though could be...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can people be like this?
Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
Alxve
Xper 4 Age: 19 