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I keep seeing it all over the place, this idea that you can’t do something even though it’s within your control. For example, someone who says “I can’t afford to have a hobby!” There are plenty of hobbies that don’t cost money. “I can’t work! Nobody’s hiring!” Yes they are, if you really, truly need money then you can find a job, you’re just not looking everywhere. “I can’t get a boyfriend/girlfriend!” Yes, you can. You just need to get out of the house more and make an effort.

I don’t know, it just ticks me off to see so many people act helpless and refuse to believe otherwise. You can do anything, be anything, you just have to put in the effort. And yeah, it’s hard sometimes, but if you really want something then it’s worth it.

I was able to tell immediately how a man who wants to be my boyfriend online started persuading me to do things I didn’t want to do. I also met him in real life but escaped from him when he wasn’t looking. I even found his Instagram and check his posts he has been with his new girlfriend for 3 years! I’m not sure if he has changed or is she too naive to noticed?