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Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship
When she says she wants things to happen naturally, am I on hold or being let go?
I’m a 30-year-old guy working night shift security at a hospital, and I’m currently stuck in a nuanced, low-pressure dynamic with a coworker named Bev that I need some perspective on. After getting out of a relationship...
darkcatmax
Xper 4 Age: 30 What does the bible say about envy, comparison, and true spiritual wealth?
God told me in a dream that if I want God to make me happy, I have to let other people be happy, even those I do not like, or feel do not deserve the things that God has given them. And I realized the bible teaches that...
When dating and meeting potential dates for the first time, what precautions should young women take for their safety and to verify identify?
At college or at work, I know them well enough to feel safe to day. At church or in an organization, I ask others to determine whether I can feel safe dating. If I meet at a club or another public place, we will talk for...
Kelley1
Yoda Age: 21 Are women misguided about what really attracts men in relationships?
I know average looking women that believe they need to work extra hard to charm a man into choosing them over other women and they often achieve that through unnecessary action or behaviour. Men prefer depth over...
She rejected me but spent the whole day with me—does she just want friendship?
Do you think there is a chance for improvement, or for her feelings to change towards me? Is it over, or does she just need more time? Will pursuing her work, or is it better to stay just friends? Two weeks ago, I met a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you marry a woman who won’t quit OnlyFans for a serious relationship?
No comment needed, unless you want to. There is this 38 year old twitch streamer, Alinity, who is complaining because none of her romantic relationships work out. Her requirements, She wants a provider and traditional...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?
Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...
useful_mind
Xper 1 Age: 31 Looking for Input From Shy People?
I am looking for shy people's input. I need insight. To give you a little background: I am a Professional Companionship Coach. I help people by becoming a professional companion (friend or platonic partner), and I teach...
uncarved
Xper 1 Age: 32 Does “coworkers aren’t your friends” apply to all social situations?
I fell out with a co worker dropped me off not to my house just to be safe but long story short this guy we both know. Asking me all these questions about him why this and that I just shake my head don’t say anything....
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I wait for my long-distance boyfriend or am I being naive?
We’ve known each other 3 years and been dating 2. We went long distance 6 months ago after he had to relocate for work following job loss. Before that, our relationship was very strong—constant communication, normal ups...
Anonymous
(30-35) As a Christian man, what do you believe a godly wife truly brings to the table?
A low value butthurt weak minded incel might say "What many women bring to the table is cheating, a child support order, and divorce papers. Oh yeah, and a false accusation of domestic violence." But what a good Christian...
Horsegirly2001
Xper 5 Age: 25 Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?
I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
How to not care if my boyfriend follows bikini girls?
hey everyone, my boyfriend follows a lot of girls who show their butts on instagram and who are in bikinis. i’ve told him that it bothers me, he will tell ask me who and he will unfollow them but will later follow more....
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I know if I made the right decision in breaking up with my boyfriend?
I dated this guy for 6 months. He’s a very very busy guy he’s extremely dedicated to his work which I really do admire I’ve never seen anyone so disciplined. But it also takes up so much of his time and energy that there...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, any advice for this and have you dealt with this yourself?
I’m an anxious texter and I struggle with overthinking and texting too often and unsending so when a guy says you stress out and exhaust / over exhaust yourself etc is he losing interest? Like he will also ghost and come...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you believe both positive and negative karma affect happiness?
I think the reason so many billionaires are having psychiatric problems and psychiatric medications is that they have the money and the social status, but not the positive karma that you need to be happy. You can own a...
Why is this handsome, successful 29M so lonely and clingy toward me?
So I (22F) matched with a guy (29M) last year. He got out of a 2-year relationship with a girl who was a lawyer. He ended things, weren't in touch with her. This guy works in IT, has a remote job (works from his home),...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 