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Search Results: does having sex hurt
Why does my fiancée initiate sexual tension but always pull away?
Hi friends. I’m coming to you for opinions or just thoughts and feelings about some stuff in my relationship. I’m 23 (F) and my fiancee is 26 (F). We have been together for almost 5 years now. About a year, maybe a year...
lolitsme1123
Xper 3 Age: 23 Why does this site feel dominated by misogynistic, woman-hating men?
Don't get me wrong I've spoken to some amazing men on this site who are open to honest and civil discussions but I've come to have a love hate relationship with this site manly because a lot of the men on this site are so...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 "I don't want to lead you on", "but I like you". Why a guy would say these?
I met this guy through a dating site. He said he wanted a long term relationship but not in a rush. I am the same way and I told him that I practice monogamy. He said he's the same. We went on dates that he planned mostly...
mknoll2025
Xper 1 Age: 37 Mammograms: What They Don't Tell You.
As you are all aware, October is breast cancer awareness month so apart from Halloween, tis the season for the mammo-mash and the knocker smash! This is our first line of defence against breast cancer but understandably,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Im really not sure what to say to him. Help?
Hi guys so a really quick one, just want to know what to do now since I've tried most things. Been with my partner for about a year were very loving and compatible in every way but one... sex. Im much more experienced and...
Anonymous
(25-29) I called a man who treated me badly for years a b*tch. Is it normal to feel this bad about it?
I have been seeing this man on and off for three years. He hasn’t been good to me and has disrespected me many times and has hurt me many times. He’s never been my boyfriend, but I kept them at arms length because I have...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it morally okay to live with girlfriend under one roof?
I am dating this girl for 6 month and most of the time we spend time together. But for the past few weeks my girlfriend suggesting to live with her because she cannot tolerate that in night I would go to my own home to...
JasonOrlove
Xper 1 Age: 26 Am I being used and strung along?
My ex and I have been back in contact for about two weeks now. After being in no contact for about a month. I broke it and I’m the one that cut him off. Well things were going ok until Valentine’s Day when he wished me a...
raeaskstuff
Xper 3 Age: 24 5 Things Guys Should Never Do
Just want to share some crucial things in this Take that I think all guys should understand and take heed to. There is so much in life that men are not being taught about people and the world because people are so busy...
Opinions and advice needed! But what should I do?
So I am going all in with this guy I really like and he knows I like him, he says he likes me back but it's not romantic nor is he interested in dating anybody right now, unless it's this chick who he hasn't seen in over...
Anonymous
(18-24) How Do I Handle My Dad Catching Me with My Boyfriend and Taking Things Too Far?
I’m 19 years old, and I’ve always thought I had a good balance between being an adult and living under my parents’ roof. But something happened recently that has left me shaken and unsure about how to handle things. My...
Gift05
Xper 1 Age: 21 Feeling very unwanted/undesired in my relationship?
I really feel unwanted and under-appreciated in my relationship and it's starting to really hurt. I feel like I do all the giving but never really get anything back. I pay for most things most of the time in our...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my boyfriend gay?
He loves to watch love stories romantic dramas versus action movies but he does watch action movies too. He loves bts songs that are for me a bit girly like the boy to luv song lol. He easily cries during sad movies...
Ofoceansbeaches1
Xper 5 Age: 35 Why does he act like he’s in love with me on the phone but in person he barely even talks to me?
met this guy on instagram, we started talking and i enjoyed chatting with him. he had already made lots of promises like he’d never hurt me or lie to me, stuff like that. he was quite desperate for a relationship since he...
melaniegonza
Xper 3 Age: 18 Why did he say we're not together after 4 months?
What does it mean if a guy says I'm not his girlfriend & we're not officially together yet after texting, calling, regularly dating, introducing me to his friends, buying me stuff & having sex for 4 months? We're 20. In...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I get a socially awkward friend to get out of her shell and start dating again?
My friend has a lot of good qualities about her. She’s kind hearted, she’s a good christian (as in she accepts everyone for who they are but at the same time isn’t judgy or strict), she’s smart and very pretty (she turns...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he just using me or does he have feelings of any sort?
I (F36) recently ended a long-term relationship of 14 years with my boyfriend and one of the causes has been the crush that I have been feeling for the guitarist of my band (N), who I have been knowing for the last 2...
Mufflone
Xper 3 Age: 32 Does anyone else wish to get married and raise a family yet know that that is not the life for them?
I had a really messed up childhood. It will take the rest of my life to fix myself. I wish I could have a kid and raise it but I'm broken. Even if the mom wasn't there anymore I would happily raise a child by myself....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my ex husband only want sex?
My ex husband cheated before we got married and I always felt like he had a naked eye towards other woman. I didn’t trust him. He didn’t respect me. I was raped and he use to throw it In my face and say “your dad fucked...
Anonymous
(30-35) Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
