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Does being thinner attract fewer but ‘higher quality’ men?

At my heaviest as a woman I’ve been 145lbs and my lowest has been 90lbs I am 5’1 so pretty short. I personally thought my lowest weight was a perfect weight for my body. And I began to notice changes with how people...
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Maladroit Mid-Life-Musings: Bullying, Bystanders and Regret (25 years later)

I'm turning 40 in a few days, so I've been all sorts of reflective recently. I don't know anybody who would want to hear all of this. So...I'll throw it up on the internet for people to read; or not. I'm writing this...
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Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad

So I’m not one to care much about Hollywood and celebrities as some of you know. Most of that crap means nothing to me, but the feud between Blake Liar - excuse me, I mean Blake Lively - and Justin Baldoni has...
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Why do a lot of people feel the need to comment on everything that a person does?

I just got rid of a 13 year friendship. I’ve known my male friend for years and in ways he has been a good friend. He’s done some things that have bothered me but today was too far. I am training for a Marathon to raise...
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Men need to stop consuming anti-women media, they are shooting themselves in the foot.

1. The golddigger argument. Right now there is this ridiculous trend going around about 'high value' men and 'alpha' males. I see many men commenting that you will not have a chance with a woman unless you are either of...
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What are your thoughts on dating a girl who has had massive weight loss?

Does it make you think differently of her in dating? I am talking about someone who lost over 200 pounds on their own, over a span of a couple years. I am down from a 4/5xl to a size m/large, everything's kind of new to...
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What happened when I saw this guy in town?

This guy used to have a crush on me. Ill be honest. I’ve gained weight since he last saw me. Why? Trauma. A lot of it, but I’m not going to play any violins here. Just know I’m working on it. Anyway, I’m a pretty...
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Guys, do you care if your girl gains some weight? If you do, would you tell her?

Does that bother you? Ladies, how’d you feel if your man tells you you gained some weight honey.
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Was this medical technician trying to insult me?

So I'm small and skinny. I had a cardiology doctor's appointment and as I was walking with the medical technician to the examination room she asked to check my weight. I went to where they had the scale and I stepped on...
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Is it OK for a guy to ask a girl to exercise?

I met this guy through online dating. We live long distance and haven’t met in person yet, but we’ve talked almost every day for a couple months now. One of our topics of conversation is exercise; he regularly works out...
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"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...
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Do you grunt when you lift heavy weights at the gym and if not does it bother you when people do it?

I'll admit I do it when I'm lifting really heavy weights but it's an involuntary response. And if anyone just assumes guys do that for attention, tell me do you apply the same logic when girls wear skin-tight leggings,...
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A guy I met. Does he have someone else, or true he has turmoil in his life and can't be in a relationship right now?

A healthy relationship started, no issues, until we fell out then he ghosted after blocking phone number. Returns 2 years later saying he didn't like who he met after as much. But had held a grudge as to how I hurt him by...
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My boyfriend of (almost) three years has no ambition, (seemingly) wants me to mother him and is also developing the mindset of a “prepper”?

Hi all, I’ll keep this as brief as a I can, god knows I could go on for a while. My boyfriend (M/26) and I (F/29) have been dating for just shy of three years. Up until the last nine months or so, everything was...
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Girls, Was she purposely trying to make me jealous?

For about a year myself and a girl kept looking at each other in the gym. Everytime she walk in she stare at me, or if she walked past carrying weights she would stare. But I did not know if she was single. Sometimes I...
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Why does it seem like men are far nicer and accepting than women are?

This isn't a "I hate women" post. I'm just pointing things out. Why is it that when a woman has something she's insecure about that's traditionally seen as a negative/flaw, many men, if not most, will happily accept...
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Do you have any tips on how to be self motivated to workout and eat healthy?

Does anyone have tips on how to motivate yourself into working out and eating healthy? I'm trying to lose weight and tone up both for mental health reasons and physical. I'm not so bothered about how much I weigh, only...
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What do you think of the treatment of Disney Channel stars?

I was a big fan of Hannah Montana and I was shocked when I saw her twerker on stage, meanwhile I am a big fan of Lady Gaga and it doesn't bother me what she does it's ridiculous how I reacted. I was to old to follow...
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Why do you think this happens?

I live my life completely relaxed and I'm happy with it. I dont feel like doing much or work. I like relaxing and having fun. I want to work but I am kind of lazy. I dont know why that is always how I feel. I just want...
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Girls, is a guy's weight a turn off?

And if so, when does it become that? Like is there a certain amount that would be "acceptable" vs "deal breaker"? If you liked him otherwise, where the weight didn't necessarily "bother" you, would you find it a turn off...
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