A healthy relationship started, no issues, until we fell out then he ghosted after blocking phone number. Returns 2 years later saying he didn't like who he met after as much. But had held a grudge as to how I hurt him by rejecting going to his place after a meal, however it was too soon was my response no hurt intended.
Sadly though he wasn't behaving the same healthy way.
Issues:
Car always out of sight when he'd come to see me.
Did not invite me to his anymore after downsizing and moving. He has history his ex wife went crazy on him (at least I think they were divorced), she had a second child with the next guy. He was not remarried etc. I challenged him about the car etc and not inviting me to his, leading me to think he was cheating, he really hated that accusation.
Then after a drink out he paid for etc, and walking me home, hugged and left, just a hug no kiss, had tried to tell me again that he has a lot of issues at home and that's why he doesn't invite me after he saw how disappointed I was on asking him.
The next day he messaged to say, he can't have a relationship. Just too busy maxed out to have one or give me quality time. Not sure if this bothering me ongoing got the better of him in the end.
I asked is his daughter causing him problems, he said part of it not all of it, wouldn't say anymore than that. I suspect his ex wife or he is going through divorce after all this time, but I'd had thought he'd be divorced already after she met guy no.2 and had a child with him in the past.
I said I wait for him, he said no not to, fell out over it in messages, he said it's over! Didn't block me. He is on a dating site but was still on it, always strongly denied he was seeing anyone else etc or even talking to anyone else but he was talking to others at least, I know as he said he saw one of his exes on there that had put on a lot of weight.
Blocked him to ensure he couldn't treat me like this again and just leave. Sometime after he blocked me too.
