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On a first meetup, do you put your phone on silent or leave it on?

Ur going to meet up with someone you ve never met in person. Before ur face to face with them, do u put your phone on silent so u can give her your undivided attention? Or do u not even worry about it? With my ex, when we...
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Why do men ask for something casual but get upset when I act casual about it?

I’ve recently had this issue of men only wanting a physical relationship, then getting mad when I don’t prioritize seeing them. I just don’t get it.
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Would you rather have a formal first date or a relaxed, playful one?

For this, what I mean is would you rather go on a date to a fancy dinner place or a more casual activity? One I'd most want to do is cooking dinner together at a place. Fancy restaurants are awkward with the sitting...
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For this, what I mean is would you rather go on a date to a fancy dinner place or a more casual activity? One I'd most want to do is cooking dinner together at a place. Fancy Show More
I prefer dinner dates
I prefer casual dates (like cooking together)
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Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women

Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
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Is it normal to feel like shit months after a guy blocks you over your body?

Okay, freshly post-teen here, and I am fucking confused. Do you burn the guy that blocks you after complimenting your boobs, or do you burn yourself? That might be a bit fucking overboard, but I’m not a person that...
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How to deal with being an autistic girl with a mild intellectual disability and people thinking guys are going to take advantage of me?

I am high functioning autistic and have a mild intellectual disability as well and I am always shunned from hooking up because people think guys will take advantage of me. Why is this true? I can consent to sex but people...
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My ex came back, but I don’t know what we are?

My ex and I had been broken up for 6 months, and he came back to me right before Christmas with a very casual how are you? We’ve seen each other 2x now, and of course have been intimate, he slept over just the other...
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Why does doing the right thing feel so bad afterward?

I’m travelling and staying in a hostel. I met a woman there and things escalated quickly into kissing and making out. In the moment it felt exciting and validating — it was my first real make-out experience she put my...
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Confused about what this guy really wants his behavior is inconsistent?

I met a guy in 2020 when I hired him to do a service for me. About two years later, he reached out and asked for my number. At first I thought he was interested in getting to know me, but once we started texting, he was...
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Guys, How do you react when a woman (you are one point interested in) starts going off on radical politics you don’t agree with?

This isn’t my first rodeo dealing with women who are obsessed about politics. I had been getting to know a young woman who I met in person once and been messaging since. She never brought up politics (and neither did I)...
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What's the point of dating if not to marry?

I don't understand casual dating, why do people date just to have somebody there. I don't understand people who don't date to marry like you're just dating somebody and then what? At what point do you say to yourself "I...
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Why do I pull away when I actually like a girl, even though I want to connect with her? How can I stop this pattern?

This keeps happening to me, it is a pattern. I don’t play games or flirt, I’ve never needed to. The girls I’ve been with in the past usually made the first move, and things just flowed naturally. But when I really like...
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Advice about friends with benefits?

I was in a friends with benefits situation recently, he spent a few months pursuing me sending weekly messages. We hooked up and been seeing each other on and off for months. I tried to distance myself from him a few...
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Was my reaction to him justified?

I was dating a guy back in July/August when he dropped off. I dated others since, missed the excitement of him and figured I’d reach out for something casual. He said about going on a “proper date,” but he needed a couple...
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How fast do you leave your "friends" alone?

I had 2 close friends in hs. The other classmates were more casual FB friends. My mom liked one because she had the same faith as us (Tia) and my mom hated the other since we went to a football game and she paid $9 for a...
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I think I'm his rebound but also does he think im his safe space?

After several months of not seeing each other , I'm so stupid, I let him makeout with me, everything he sent and ask for , was basically lust. Now I didn't sleep with him like he wanted or let him eat me, but I gave him...
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Guys, Getting mixed signals, what should I do?

I met this man online a while ago, it was in a larger group setting. Eventually we started talking on a professional level, but the professional talks started relaxing into casual and friendly, we started calling each...
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Are men really that bad?

I don't know if it’s just me but in the last well close to a decade it feels like if you a man your like a stain on humanity how men are talks about in media how we are treated and the things that woman say and do....
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Getting Tons of Attention on app – Real Interest or Red Flags?

Hi everyone! I'm a local Thailand woman and had an experience that honestly left me a little stunned, and I wanted to get some perspectives from people who might know more. I’m a pretty average-looking straight woman —...
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What should I do about confusing friends with benefits/situationship?

I (26f) met this guy (35m) through mutual friends. We lived nearby each other, got along great, and went on some dates. He would also come over and just talk to me for hours after we both got off work. At the time, he...
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